tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88934596966262215742024-03-13T07:51:16.047-07:00mustaghfirinMari kita terus beribadah dan belajarsebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.comBlogger131125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-47047775851373254692014-01-03T16:32:00.003-08:002014-01-03T16:32:48.430-08:00Awal tahun kuliah lagiAlhamdulillah, bisa kembali posting.<br />
Hari ini adalah masa kuliah dan hari ini adalah kembali kuliah setelah libur akhir tahun.<br />
<br />sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-71912771179701193462013-07-02T17:12:00.000-07:002013-07-02T17:12:29.606-07:00HURU HARA DUNIA<!--[if !mso]>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Begitulah berbagai keinginan orang yang hatinya sudah berangsur bersih. Mereka ingin, agar
manusia kalau berdoa itu yang muncul kepasrahan bukan todongan. Mereka juga
membangun komunitas yang saling menasehati tentang kesabaran dan kebenaran.
Mereka juga ingin mengikatkan diri dalam kelompok silaturrahmi yang produk
kinerjanya adalah positif, ikhlas, bermanfaat, berfaedah dan anti kemubadziran.
Gagasan dan rancangan amalusolihah digagas. kepedulian kepada sesama juga di
rancang. silaturrahmi juga digalakkan. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Tetapi, apa yang terjadi adalah kebalikan dari apa
yang menjadi hasrat murni si hamba Allah SWT yang insaf itu. Huru hara terjadi dimana-mana. Pembunuhan terjadi di sana sini. Umat Islam ditindas di setiap
tempat. Ketidak-adilan dan kedzoliman tumbuh dengan subur. Seruan kepada
kebaikan tidak dihiraukan. Ajakan kepada perdamaian tidak dipedulikan.
Perbuatan maksiat terus juga dilakukan tanpa segan ataupun malu. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Si hamba tadi melihat kekacauan yang terjadi di
dunia ini dirasakan seperti mata tombak menikam kedalam hatinya. Hatinya
merintih, “Agama-Mu dipermainkan, di manakah pembelaan dari-Mu wahai Tuhan!
Umat Islam ditindas, dimanakah pertolongan-Mu Wahai Tuhan! Seruan kepada
jalanMu tidak disambut, apakah Engkau hanya berdiam diri wahai Tuhan! Manusia
melakukan kedzoliman, kemaksiatan dan kemunkaran, apakah Engkau hanya membiarkan
wahai Tuhan?”. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Beginilah keadaan hati orang yang merasa heran melihat kekacauan
kehidupan dunia ini dan dia tidak berkuasa menjernihkannya. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Allah SWT menjawab
keluhan hamba-Nya dengan firmanNya:</span><i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"> "Dan (ingatlah) ketika Tuhanmu berfirman kepada Malaikat:
“Sesungguhnya Aku hendak menjadikan seorang khalifah di bumi”. Mereka bertanya
(tentang hikmah ketetapan Tuhan itu dengan berkata): “Adakah Engkau (Ya Tuhan
kami) hendak menjadikan di bumi itu orang yang akan membuat bencana dan
menumpahkan darah (saling membunuh), padahal kami senantiasa bertasbih
memuji-Mu dan mensucikan-Mu?” Tuhan berfirman: “Sesungguhnya Aku mengetahui apa
yang kamu tidak mengetahuinya”. <b>( Ayat 30 : Surah al-Baqarah )</b></span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"> </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Bahkan para malaikat sudah dapat membayangkan tentang
kehidupan dunia yang akan dijalani oleh makhluk berwujud manusia sebelum
manusia pertama diciptakan. Sifat dunia yang dinyatakan oleh malaikat ialah
kekacauan dan pertumpahan darah. Dunia adalah ibu sementara kekacauan dan
pertumpahan darah adalah anaknya. Ibu tidak melahirkan anak kecuali dari
jenisnya juga. </span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Kekacuan, peperangan, pembunuhan dan sebagainya
di dunia adalah sesuatu yang niscaya terjadi, maka tidak
perlu diherankan. Jika terdapat kedamaian dan keharmonisan disana sini di
dunia, itu adalah sagu-hati atau kelahiran yang tidak mengikut sifat
ibunya. Seterusnya Allah SWT menceritakan tentang dunia: </span><br />
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<br /></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Allah saja berfirman, “Turunlah kamu semuanya, dengan
keadaan setengah kamu menjadi musuh bagi setengahnya yang lain, dan bagi
kamu disediakan tempat kediaman di bumi, dan juga diberi kesenangan hingga
suatu ketika (mati)”. <b>( Ayat 24 : Surah al-A’raaf )</b></span></i><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"> </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN; mso-no-proof: yes; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;"><span style="mso-ignore: vglayout;"></span></span><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Allah SWT menerangkan dengan jelas tentang sifat-sifat
dunia yang dihuni oleh manusia. Manusia bermusuhan sesama dengan sesamanya,
saling menghancurkan dan kesenangannya adalah tipu daya. Segala perkiraan dan pembalasan
yang berlaku didalam dunia ini tidaklah sempurna. </span>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Manusia dibagi menjadi dua golongan yaitu yang beriman
dan yang tidak beriman. Golongan yang tidak beriman menerima upah terhadap
kebaikan yang mereka lakukan semasa didunia dan diakhirat kelak mereka tidak
dapat menuntut apa-apa lagi dari Tuhan. Janganlah heran dan merasa
iri hati sekiranya Tuhan membalas kebaikan mereka ketika mereka masih hidup
di dunia dengan memberikan kepada mereka berbagai kelebihan dan kemewahan. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Mereka tidak berhak lagi menuntut nikmat akhirat dan tempat kembali mereka
disana kelak ialah neraka jahanam. Begitu juga janganlah heran dan bersedih
hati sekiranya orang-orang yang beriman dan beramal salih terpaksa menghadapi
penderitaan dan penghinaan semasa hidup didunia. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Dunia ini tidak layak
dijadikan tempat buat Allah SWT membalas kebaikan mereka. Balasan
kebaikan dari Allah SWT sangat tinggi nilainya, sangat mulia dan sangat agung,
tidak layak dimuat dan diberikan di dunia yang nilainya tak seberapa. Dunia hanyalah tempat
hidup, beramal dan lalu mati. Setelah terjadi kiamat kita akan dibangkitkan dan yang
menunggu kita adalah negeri yang abadi.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Si hamba yang sudah mendalami hikmah kebenaran menjadi
bingung karenanya. Bingung, karena heran bahwa betapa bodohnya manusia yang tidak
mau mengikuti jalan kebenaran. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Lalu apa yang harus dilakukan? kesadaran dari
perenungan berbagai hikmah dengan realitas kehidupan yang
haru biru dan berhuru hara. Di sinilah kewaspadaan sang pencari hikmah yaitu <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>sang peniti jalan Tuhan diuji. diujinya
adalah apakah dia menjadi manusia perenung penyendiri dengan dalih membersihkan
hati dan perilaku , atau dia masuk terjun ke dalam dunia dengan segala hingar
bingarnya. Kalau menyendiri, laku apa yang harus dikerjakan? menjadi pertapa?
atau pendekar menjadi 'orang tua' alias dukun? kalau terjun ke dunia hingar bingar, pegangan
apa yang mesti dipeluk dan dijadikan panduan?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Alloh SWT maha bijaksana. Alloh maha tahu apa
kebutuhan hambaNya. Untuk keduanya, Alloh memberi tuntunan yang diberi label
SYARIAT.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Ya Syariat, berarti jalan lurus menuju ke suatu
tujuan.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Manusia pasti linglung bila tidak memegang syariat.
Manusia pasti berperilaku aneh, bila tidak mengikuti langkah langkah dalam
syariat. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Siapa yang mencari sesuatu yang bukan karya Alloh,
maka dia akan menjadi lelah dan loyo karenanya. Dan Alloh tidak akan memberi
yang dicarinya.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Apa itu? itulah kesenangan dunia !!!</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jadi seharusnya seorang murid, seorang salik yang
bersungguh dalam meniti jalan Ilahi, jangan sampai menoleh, terkecoh dan
mlengos, terhadap hal yang mebikin hatinya susah. Bersungguhlah dalam upaya
menuju dan mengahadap ke hadirat ilahi. Berjalanlan terus dengan panduan
syariat sehingga engkau bisa dengat dan mengahadap kehadiratNya. Sinar matahari
ma'rifat Alloh akan mnerangi hatimu dan menyingkan kegelapan Aghyar . Dan semua
hal yang menyusahkan dan membuat hatimu gundah sedih, zakan sirna dan hilang
karena kau selalu memandang kepada Alloh. Karena kau selalu muroqqobah dengan
Alloh. Karena Alloh adalah Dzat yang Maha menang dan besar sekali
pengampunannya.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Masih ingat hadirat ilahi bukan? Coba Bu Mia,
tunjukkan tiga tempat di dunia ini yang terpilih, dimana suasana dan atmosfir hadirat
Ilahi sangat kental di dalamnya?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Coba Mbak Khom, masih ingat bukan 3 tempat di alam
lain yang posisinya sama dengan ka'bah? Kalau lupa, tanyalah paka Pak Siens,
beliau pasti tahu, karena dialah sang perangkum handal.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 5.0pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Lalu apa itu syariat? apakah sama dengan fiqih? apakah
sama dengan hukum islam ?</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Arti Syari’at, adalah sumber air
mengalir yang didatangi manusia atau binatang untuk minum. Syari’at menurut
istilah adalah peraturan atau hukum Allah SWT yang diturunkan melalui rasulNya,
untuk manusia, agar mereka mendapatkan petunjuk ke jalan yang lurus.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Syari’at Islam dibagi menjadi tiga
bagian, yaitu:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>1. Ilmu Tauhid,</b> yaitu hukum atau
peraturan-peraturan yang berhubungan dengan dasar-dasar keyakinan agama Islam,
yang tidak boleh diragukan dan harus benar-benar menjadi keimanan kita. Ilmu
tauhid ini dinamakan juga Ilmi Aqidah atau Ilmu Kalam.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>2. Ilmu Akhlak,</b> yaitu peraturan-peraturan
yang berhubungan dengan pendidikan dan penyempurnaan jiwa. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>3. Ilmu Fiqh,</b> yaitu aturan yang mengatur hubungan manusia dengan Tuhannya dan hubungan
manusia dengan sesamanya. Ilmu Fiqh mengandung dua bagian: pertama, ibadah,
yaitu hukum tatacara hubungan manusia dengan Tuhannya. Kedua, muamalat, yaitu
bagian yang menjelaskan tentang hukum-hukum hubungan antara manusia dengan
sesamanya. Ilmu Fiqh juga disebut Qanun<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>atau undang-undang.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Tujuan Syariat Islam ada 5,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>yaitu:</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">1. Memelihara kemaslahatan dan
kemurnian agama. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">2. Memelihara jiwa. Jiwa siapapun
harus dilindungi. Islam sangat menghargai jiwa.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN; mso-themecolor: text1;">3.
Memelihara akal. Akal manusia dibutuhkan untuk memikirkan ayat-</span><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">ayat Qauliyah (Al-Quran) dan kauniah (sunnatullah). </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">4. Memelihara keturunan dan
kehormatannya. Syariat islam mengatur secara jelas, siapa anak siapa. Siapa
mewarisi harta yang mana.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">5. Memelihara harta benda. Syariat
Islam, menjamin kepemilikan harta seseorang. Syariat Islam menjaga suasana
tertib masyarakat terhadap kepemilikan properti seseorang.</span></div>
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Fikih adalah Ilmu tentang
hukum-hukum syara' yang bersifat amaliah yang ditemukan dari dalil-dalilnya
yang rinci. Sebagai salah satu disiplin ilmu keislaman, maka ada 4 atribut yang
bisa diambil dari pengertian fikih, yaitu:</span>
<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>Pertama</b>, fikih adalah suatu ilmu.
Karena suatu ilmu maka fikih punya kaidah atau methodenya yang khas.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>Kedua,</b> fikih adalah ilmu tentang
hukum-hukum syariat. Artinya lingkup fikih adalah syariat. Jadi dalam fikih
tidak dibicarakan hukum akal dan hukum lainnya. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>Ketiga</b>, fikih adalah ilmu tentang
hukum-hukum syara' yang bersifat amaliah. Artinya fikih perbuatan yang
dilakukan manusia baik dalam bentuk ibadah maupun mu`amalah. maknanya,
hukum-hukum non amaliah, seperti dasar iman, bukan bagian dari kajian fikih. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>Keempat,</b> fikih adalah ilmu tentang
hukum-hukum yang bersifat amaliah yang ditemukan dari dalil-dalilnya dari
sumbernya yaitu nash al-Qur`an atau hadis melalui proses pencarian, deduksi,
penyimpulan dan<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>analisis . </span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Kalau begitu, fikih adalah dugaan
kuat yang dicapai oleh seorang peneliti ahli hukum islam yang dalam usahanya telah menemukan hukum Allah. </span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Syariat itu bersifat tetap dan pasti<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>tentang kebenaran serta keadilannya karena berasal dari kehendak Allah.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Sementara fikih, tidak bersifat
tetap. Fikih bisa saja diubah dan dirombak sesuai dengan perbedaan tempat,
perubahan waktu, serta lingkungan dan dinamika kultur masyarakat. Kebenaran dan
keadilan fikih tidak bersifat relatif. Sifat fikih yang demikian disebabkan
fikih adalah interpretasi terhadap hukum syariah. </span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Berdasarkan fakta sejarah
pembentukan fikih, dipengaruhi kebiasaan, kultural, politik, dan faktor-faktor
lainnya.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Lalu, Bagaimana kalau ada orang
menyebut kata hukum islam?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"></span> hukum islam adalah koleksi daya upaya ahli hukum Islam untuk
menerapkan syariat sesuai dengan kebutuhan masyarakat.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"></span>Kata ”koleksi daya upaya menerapkan syariat”
itulah yang dinamakan fikih.</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Meskipun syariat itu bukan fikih,
akan tetapi keduanya tidak dapat dipisahkan. Karena, syariat adalah asal,
pokok, sari atau inti, ajaran yang ideal serta berlaku secara universal.
Sementara fikih, adalah cabang dan perwujudan dan syariat. Fikih harus
responsif terhadap persoalan-persoalan di sekitarnya. </span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Konsekuensinya, perubahan
dan perbedaan fatwa atau opini hukum niscaya terjadi karena perbedaan waktu,
tempat, situasi, tujuan, niat dan adat istiadat. Hal ini adalah keniscayaan
sehingga fikih, sebagai perwujudan syariat memiliki adaptabilitas dengan
dinamika kehidupan sosial yang setiap saat terus berubah.</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Syariat, sebagai ajaran yang
diyakini hanya bisa dibuktikan melalui fikih. Konsep-konsep syariat yang ideal
harus diterjemahkan fikih dalam tataran praktis, nyata dan dibumikan dalam
realitas sosial. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">So, maknanya pengembangan syariat
sangat tergantung pada fungsi dan pola fikih. Dan, pengamalan hukum fikih
adalah bagian dari pengalaman syariat juga. Dengan ungkapan lain, fikih adalah
bagian dari syariat, tetapi bukan syariat itu sendiri. </span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Di dalam Fikih juga terkandung hukum
syara’, maksudnya, sesuatu yang telah ditetapkan oleh titah Allah yang
ditujukan kepada manusia, yang penetapannya dengan cara tuntutan/ perintah
(thalab), bukan pilihan (takhyir), atau wadha’.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Yang dimaksud dengan wadha’ adalah
sesuatu yang diletakkan menjadi sebab atau menjadi syarat, atau menjadi
pencegah terhadap yang lain. Misalnya, sabda Rasulullah saw., “Allah swt. tidak
menerima shalat yang tidak dengan bersuci.” Hadits ini menunjukkan bahwa
bersuci adalah dijadikan syarat untuk shalat.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Itulah sebabnya hukum syara’ dibagi
menjadi dua, yaitu hukum taklifi dan hukum wadh’i.</span><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"> Hukum taklifi adalah sesuatu yang
menunjukkan tuntutan atau perintah untuk berbuat, atau meninggalkan perbuatan
itu. </span>
</div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Hukum wadh’i adalah yang menunjukkan
bahwa sesutu telah dijadikan sebab, persyaratan, dan pencegahan untuk suatu perkara.
Contoh syarat mengerjakan haji adalah kewajiban manusia terhadap Allah, yaitu
bagi orang yang sanggup mengadakan perjalanan kepadanya.</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Hukum taklifi terbagi dua, yaitu azimah dan rukhshah.</span></b></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Azimah adalah suatu hukum asal yang
tidak pernah berubah karena suatu sebab dan udzur. Sedangkan rukhshah adalah
suatu hukum asal yang berubah karena suatu halangan/ udzur.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>Azimah</b> meliputi berbagai macam
hukum, yaitu:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>1. Wajib. </b>Adalah perbuatan yang
telah dituntut dilakukan dengan bentuk<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>keharusan. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>2. Haram.</b> Adalah perbuatan yang dituntut
ditinggalkan dengan bentuk<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>keharusan. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>3. Sunnah.</b> Adalah perbuatan yang
lebih utama<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>dikerjakan daripada
ditinggalkan. </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>4. Makruh. </b>Adalah sesuatu yang lebih
utama ditinggalkan daripada dikerjakan tanpa ada unsur keharusan. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>5. Mubah. </b>Mubah adalah pekerjaan
optional antara pilihan dikerjakan dan ditinggalkan tanpa ada konsekwensi.</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Kembali ke topik huru hara dunia.
Kita jangan grogi, jangan groyok, jangan loyo dan jangan terkecoh dengan segala
kesulitan dan juga kesenangan dunia. Dunia memang memiliki anak yang bernama
kesulitan, kegelisahan, kesediahan, kelalaian dan sebagainya.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Cara selamat dari dunia seperti itu,
adalah kita tegap menghadapi. Jangan dihindari, jangan ditinggal lari, apalagi
bunuh diri. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Alloh telah memberi senjata, panduan, bimbingan dan manasik kemada
manusia kalau mau kuat dan mampu mengendalikan dunia. Panduan itu bernama
SYARIAT. Di dalam syariat ada Fikih yang amat dinamis. Jadi Juga jangan
bertengkar karena fikih. Jangan menghilangkan tauhid karena fikih. Jangan
merendahkan akhlak karena fikih. Tapi manfaatkan fikih untuk memperkuat iman dan
akhlak. Gunakanlah fikih sebagai bagian dari pembumian ketaan kita kepada Alloh
SWT.</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Selamat menyongsong romadhon.
Kapanpun Anda memulainya, tidak masalah, asal punya keyakinan pedoman dengan
dalil. Jangan putuskan silaturrahmi. Bagi yang berpuasa duluan, coba, beri
tetangga semangkung opor ayam untuk makan siangnya. Bagi yang berpuasa
belakangan, hadiahilah tetangganya dengan kolak segar saat mereka berbuka
pertama.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Demikian penjabaran tentang Huru
hara Dunia, hikmah ke 24. Dalam bahasa jawa bisa diterjemahkan sebagai berikut :</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">"</span><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Ojo nganggep aneh marang tekane perkoro kang ndadeake
sumpeg ati siro. Jalaran Alam ndonyo iki mesti nglahirake keturunan kang dadi
sifate, yaitu perkoro kang nyumpekake ati lan nyusahake ati. Anak kuwi ora
bakal bedo karo sifate bopo biyunge. Ndonyo kang buthek, mesthi nglahirake
putro kang nyumpekake ati ".</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none;">
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Mohon maaf bila ada khilaf.</span></div>
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sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-80712985425858478982013-06-21T23:39:00.000-07:002013-06-21T23:39:31.575-07:00Kuliah Kuliah Kuliah<span style="font-size: large;">Alhamduliah, kuliah dimulai lagi.</span>sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-79240121253362327092013-06-21T00:41:00.001-07:002013-06-21T07:06:48.136-07:00AGHYAR DAN MUROQQOBAH<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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<br />
Do not look forward to being free of alterities (al-aghyaar), for that is
indeed what cuts you off from vigilant attention (al-muraaqabaat) to Alloh in
that very state He has assigned to you.<br />
sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-37628576838493308172013-06-20T20:01:00.003-07:002013-06-20T20:01:53.127-07:00alhamdulillah bisa diakses lagi.Alhamdulillah bisa mengakses kembali.<br />
<br />sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-21919686620983814462012-10-10T22:44:00.002-07:002012-10-11T23:43:56.431-07:006 Penjara Bagi Manusia<!--[if !mso]>
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<span lang="IN" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><br /></span></div>
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<span lang="IN" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><b>Peringkat penjara pertama</b> ialah membebaskan diri dari cengkraman
penjara alam jasad. Penjara alam jasad ialah hawa nafsu. Didalam penjara hawa
nafsu ini tersedia berbagai-bagai hidangan yang lazat-lazat seperti kekuasaan,
kemegahan, kemuliaan, pujian, ujub, ria, tamak, dengki dan lain-lain. </span></div>
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<span lang="IN" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jika mau
melepaskan diri dari penjara ini hendaklah berpuasa dari semua makanan yang
dihidangkan. Jangan diajak bercakap tentang makanan tersebut karena jika dibawa
kepada perbincangan akan mendatangkan selera. Sembunyikan selera dan lapar
walaupun perut bergelora. Sambutlah setiap hidangannya dengan menggelengkan
kepala dan palingkan muka ke arah lain. Apabila makanannya tidak dijamah, hawa
nafsu tidak ada kuasa lagi memenjarakan seseorang itu. Bebaslah dia keluar dari
penjara tersebut. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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berhadapan pula dengan <b>penjara ke 2 yakni penjara dunia</b>. Penjara dunia memamerkan berbagai jenis
keindahan dan menjanjikan keabadian. Dunia telah menghidangkan apa saja yang
menyenangkan dan mengeluarkan air liur. </span></div>
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<span lang="IN" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Di dalam penjaranya seseorang
dibenarkan melakukan apa saja, menikmati apapun hidangannya tanpa pantangan dan
larangan. Di dalam penjara dunia ini seseorang dikurung didalam bilik yang
bernama syahwat. </span></div>
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<span lang="IN" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Kaki dan tangannya dirantai dengan rantai yang bernama
kelalaian. Matanya ditutup dengan penutup yang bernama panjang angan-angan.
Didalam penjara ini makanan hawa nafsu masih lagi dihidangkan karena dunia dan
hawa nafsu senantiasa bekerjasama. Oleh karena itu setelah berpuasa dari
hidangan hawa nafsu seseorang itu perlu pula mendapatkan alat memutuskan rantai
yang mengikatnya dan merobohkan dinding penjara tersebut. Alatnya ialah ingat
kepada mati dan pembalasan selepas kematian. Inilah alat yang dapat membebaskan
seseorang dari penjara dunia. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="IN" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Setelah keluar dari penjara dunia seseorang itu akan
masuk kedalam <b>penjara tingkatan ke 3 yaitu yang disebut penjara akhirat.</b> Hidangan didalam penjara ini ialah pahala,
syurga dan bidadari. Rantai yang mengikat seseorang didalam penjara ini ialah
kehendak atau keinginan atau lebih tepat jika dipanggil kesadaran terhadap diri
sendiri. Perhatian kepada diri sendiri yang melakukan amal kebaikan menjadikan
seseorang lebih terikat didalam penjara akhirat. </span></div>
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membawanya keluar ialah ilmu, yaitu ilmu yang dapat melepaskan seseorang dari bersandar
kepada amalnya dan melihat bahwa amal kebaikan yang keluar dari dirinya adalah
kurnia Allah SWT semata-mata. Tanpa kurnia rahmat dan petunjuk dari Allah SWT
niscaya tidak akan ada kebaikan pada dirinya. Apabila seseorang telah kuat
berpegang kepada kurnia Allah SWT dia akan bebas dari penjara akhirat. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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akan masuk pula ke dalam <b>penjara tingkatan ke 4 yaitu penjara alam malaikat</b>, yaitu penjara alam maujud yang
terakhir. Hidangan di dalam penjara ini ialah kedekatan dan kemuliaan disisi
Allah SWT. Rantai pengikat ialah sisa-sisa kehendak diri sendiri dan kesadaran
terhadap diri sendiri yang menerima kurnia Allah SWT. Pada peringkat ini
perlulah dihapuskan seluruh kehendak, cita-cita, angan-angan, harapan, hajat,
fikiran dan segala yang maujud. Apabila kefanaan dari semua yang maujud
dicapai, dapatlah dia keluar dari penjara malaikat. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify;">
<span lang="IN" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Setelah berhasil keluar dari semua jenis penjara alam,
seseorang itu masuk kedalam <b>penjara ke 5 yaitu penjara ilmu tentang Allah SWT</b>. Ilmu Allah SWT
bukanlah alam, tetapi adalah hal ketuhanan sendiri. Hidangan di dalam
penjara ini ialah rahasia yang ghaib tentang hukum Allah SWT
di dalam alam. Dalam suasana Ilmu Allah SWT inilah dapat dilihat
dari penetapan Ilahi yang menggerakkan alam maya dan semua kejadian yang berlaku
di dalamnya. Oleh sebab Ilmu tentang Allah SWT sangat luas dan tiada batas sempadan
maka penjaranya juga tidak ada sempadan. Barangsiapa yang asyik dengan berbagai
ilmu yang terdapat didalamnya akan terpenjara selama-lamanya disini, karena
jika mau dikaji Ilmu Allah SWT niscaya seseorang itu akan mati dahulu
sebelum sempat mengkaji sebesar zarah dari Ilmu-Nya. Seseorang yang mau lepas
dari penjara ini hendaklah menjadikan ilmu ini sebagai kendaraan bukan tujuan. Ilmu
bukanlah mahkota untuk dijunjung tetapi ia adalah alat untuk berjalan. Apabila
ilmu dilayani dengan adil yaitu meletakkannya pada tempat yang patut baginya,
dapatlah seseorang itu bebas dari tawanannya. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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dalam <b>penjara ke 6 yaitu penjara makrifat.</b> Ia adalah penjara yang paling kukuh. Ilmu Allah dan
makrifatullah bukan lagi alam maujud. Apa yang didapati pada kedua-duanya
adalah hakikat-hakikat atau hal-hal ketuhanan. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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menyamai-Nya, menyerupai-Nya atau dapat diibaratkan bagi-Nya. Pada martabat
makrifat yang paling tinggi pencapaiannya ialah: Zat diri-Nya tidak dapat
dikenal oleh siapapun. Dia kini adalah sebagaimana Dia dahulu, bahkan tidak ada
kini dan tidak ada dahulu pada-Nya. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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dari itu adalah sia-sia. Jika dicoba juga maka hasilnya adalah tidak ada apa apa yang akan didapati. Barangsiapa yang sampai kepada makom makrifat janganlah tinggal
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syarat untuk bertemu dengan Allah SWT. Seseorang hendaklah melepaskan ilmu
pengetahuannya, amal perbuatannya, makrifatnya, sifatnya, namanya dan semua
maklumat, dengan demikian dia bertemu dengan Allah SWT seorang diri tanpa bekal apapun. Dia hendaklah melihat datangnya hidayat dan kemurahan Allah SWT,
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roh. Katakan: “Roh itu dari perkara urusan Tuhanku; dan kamu tidak diberikan
ilmu pengetahuan melainkan sedikit saja”. <b>( Ayat 85 : Surah al-Israa’ )</b></span></i><span lang="IN" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"> <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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terlalu sedikit ialah roh.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Ayat 72 : Surah Saad)</b></span></i><span lang="IN" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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menghadap kepada Allah SWT dan yang dapat masuk ke Hadrat Allah SWT. Roh
adalah urusan Allah SWT. Bagaimana roh masuk ke Hadirat Allah SWT itu juga
urusan Allah SWT, kita tidak diberi ilmu tentangnya kecuali teramat
sedikit. Pengetahuan yang sedikit itu ialah: “URUSAN ALLAH SWT !!!”
Jangan dipersoalkan dan diusut lagi. Allah SWT adalah puncak segala tujuan,
penghabisan segala perjalanan dan tumpuan semua permintaan.(Al Hikam 50)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<!--EndFragment-->sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-57841358416850079572012-10-10T22:23:00.003-07:002012-10-10T22:23:19.128-07:00Sangsi Bagi Penghina Nabi Muhammad SAW
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Muhammad SAW<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Penistaan
terhadap Rasulullah SAW seakan tiada hentinya. Kasus demi kasus bermunculan
silih berganti. Di Belanda, ada film berbau SARA yang merendahkan ajaran
Islam beserta Muhammad dengan judul “Fitna”, begitu juga kasus kartun Nabi di
Denmark. Paling anyar, tentunya ialah penghinaan Rasulullah yang dilakukan
oleh Sam Bacile, lewat film kelas teri, “The Innocence of Muslims”. Kasus
terakhir ini terbilang paling heboh. Bukan karena kualitas filmnya, melainkan dampak
yang diakibatkan setelah diunggahnya film tersebut di Youtube dan media sosial
lainnya. Aksi protes meledak di berbagai belahan dunia. Tak ada jaminan,
tindakan serupa tidak terulang pada kemudian hari. Ini lantaran tidak ada
peraturan dan kesepakatan internasional soal kejahatan menghina Rasulullah atau
simbol-simbol agama yang disucikan. Rentetan kejadian ini menarik perhatian
sejenak untuk menengok polemik penghinaan Rasulullah di era klasik. Prof Hasan
As-Sayyid Hamid Khitab, melalui makalahnya yang berjudul “Jarimat Sub An-Nabi
Muhammad SAW wa Uqubatuha Bain Al-Fiqh Al-Islami wa Al-Qanun Ad- Dauli”,
memaparkan persoalan ini secara terperinci dan penyikapan para ulama salaf.
Mereka sepakat satu hal, yaitu bila pelaku adalah Muslim, ia bisa dinyatakan
murtad dan mesti dibunuh. Pendapat ini adalah pernyataan para ulama, seperti
Abu Hanifah, Malik bin Anas, Laits, Ahmad, Syafi’i, dan Ishaq. Konsensus ini
ditegaskan oleh Abu Bakar ibn Al-Mudzir dan Abu Sulaiman Al-Khutabi. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Kesepakatan
ini dilandasi dasar dan argumentasi yang kuat. Larangan untuk menyudutkan
Rasulullah itu tertuang, antara lain, dalam ayat 57 Surah Al-Ahzab,
Adz-Dzariyaat ayat ke-10, dan Al-Munafiquun ayat 4. Ini diperkuat dengan
hadis-hadis Rasulullah yang melarang cacian dan ejekan terhadapnya. Misalnya
saja, riwayat Al-Hakim yang mengisahkan tentang perintah membunuh Ka’ab bin
Al-Asyraf. Instruksi itu menyusul ejekan dan hinaannya terhadap Rasulullah.
Kasus dan sanksi serupa juga dijatuhkan terhadap pelaku penistaan ketika peristiwa
penaklukan Makkah. Kisah ini seperti dinukilkan oleh Bukhari dan
Muslim. Pemberlakuan hukuman mati bagi pelaku penistaan juga berlangsung pada
masa kekhalifahan. Suatu saat, Harun Ar-Rasyid meminta fatwa ke Imam Malik bin
Anas yang berada di Tanah Hijaz, Madinah, perihal sanksi bagi seseorang yang
telah mencaci Rasulullah. Sang Khalifah menceritakan para ahli fikih di Irak
memberi fatwa, yaitu pelaku hanya dijatuhi hukuman cambuk. Tak elak, pendapat
ini menyulut kemarahan Imam Malik. Menurut dia, siapa pun yang menghina
Rasulullah maka harus dibunuh. Sedangkan mereka yang merendahkan sahabat cukup
dicambuk. “Wahai pemimpin Mukminin, apa jadinya umat bila Nabi mereka sendiri
telah dihina?” Sikap tegas terhadap para penista Nabi ditunjukkan pula oleh
Khalifah Umar bin Abdul Aziz. Ketegasan itu bisa dilihat dari jawaban atas
pertanyaan yang dilayangkan oleh pejabat pemerintah di Kufah. Ketika itu,
bawahannya menanyakan hukum mereka yang telah mencaci Umar bin Khatab. Khalifah
Umar bin Abdul Aziz menjawab, haram hukumnya membunuh sesama Muslim yang
mencaci seseorang, kecuali bila yang dihina Rasulullah. “Jika demikian, halal
darahnya,” katanya. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Tidak gugur </span></b><span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Muncul
pertanyaan, bagaimana bila pelaku bertobat setelah perbuatannya itu? Apakah
tobatnya akan diterima lantas menggugurkan sanksi di dunia? Guru Besar Adab
di Universitas Manovea, Mesir, ini mengatakan ulama sepakat, tobat nasuha akan
bermanfaat baginya kelak di akhirat. Tetapi, apakah kemudian menghindarkannya
dari hukuman mati? Para ulama berbeda pendapat. Menurut mayoritas ulama dari
Mazhab Maliki, Syafi’i, dan Hanbali, tobatnya tersebut tidak berpengaruh apa
pun pada sanksi di dunia. Ia tetap harus menjalani hukuman mati. Mereka
beranggapan, sebagaimana hukuman lain di dunia, maka sanksi itu tak lantas
otomatis gugur dengan tobat pelaku. Sedangkan kelompok yang kedua
berpandangan, mereka yang telah menghina Rasulullah dari kalangan Muslim lalu
bertobat dengan sebenar-benar tobat maka sanksi itu gugur. Ia tak perlu
dibunuh. Opsi ini disuarakan oleh Mazhab Hanafi, Syafi’i di salah satu riwayat
pendapatnya yang lemah, dan sebagian kecil Mazhab Hanbali. Mereka berasumsi,
bila seorang non-Muslim menistakan Rasulullah, lalu ia masuk Islam dan bertobat
saja mendapat dispensasi tidak dibunuh, tentunya ketentuan yang sama pantas
berlaku bagi seorang Muslim yang bertobat. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Kasus
penghinaan Rasulullah SAW kerap terjadi di negara-negara Barat dan tentunya
oleh pelaku yang didominasi dari kalangan non-Muslim. Islam memberikan sanksi
tegas bagi Muslim yang menghina simbol kesucian agama-dalam konteks ini ialah
melecehkan Nabi. Bila terbukti dan ada unsur kesengajaan, maka ia harus
menanggung akibatnya berupa hukuman mati. Bagaimana jika penghina ialah
non-Muslim? Apakah akan diperlakukan sama? Prof Hasan As-Sayyid Hamid Khitab
melalui makalahnya yang berjudul “Jarimat Sub an-Nabi Muhammad SAW wa Uqubatuha
Bain al-Fiqh al-Islami wa al-Qanun ad-Dauli” mengupas hukum penistaan terhadap
Nabi oleh non-Muslim. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Istilah yang
ia gunakan untuk kelompok ini lebih terperinci, yaitu ahlu ad-dzimmah (Nasrani
dan Yahudi) atau golongan lainnya yang berdomisili di wilayah Islam. Para
ulama sepakat, non-Muslim yang menghina Rasulullah harus dihukum. Namun,
hukuman seperti apa yang mesti dijatuhkan kepada pelaku? Mereka berselisih
pandang. Ada dua pendapat ulama menyikapi kasus ini. Kelompok yang pertama
menyatakan pelecehan terhadap Nabi, apa pun itu bentuknya, entah menghina
kehormatan, merendahkan kemuliaan, atau mendiskreditkan sosok Rasulullah, maka
yang bersangkutan pantas dibunuh. Alasannya cukup jelas, melecehkan Rasulullah
tidak termasuk nota kesepakatan dan kesepahaman tanggungan (dzimmah). Imam
Al-Jashsash dari Mazhab Hanafi mengatakan, bila Muslim melecehkan Nabinya, maka
ia tidak diampuni dan wajib dibunuh. Hukuman serupa laik diterima oleh
non-Muslim, seperti Yahudi dan Nasrani. (baca: </span><a href="http://www.republika.co.id/berita/dunia-islam/fatwa/12/10/01/masgup-sanksi-bagi-penghina-rasulullah-3"><span style="color: #273588; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">Sanksi Bagi Penghina Rasulullah-3</span></a><span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Menurut Imam
Syafi’i, orang kafir yang telah merendahkan Alquran dan Muhammad SAW, maka ia
dianggap telah merusak kesepakatan bersama dan halal darahnya. Tak ada lagi
tanggung jawab sebagai warga yang berhak atas perlindungan. Mereka berargumen
dengan beberapa dalil, antara lain ayat 12 Surah at-Taubah: “Jika mereka
merusak sumpah (janji)nya sesudah mereka berjanji, dan mereka mencerca agamamu,
maka perangilah pemimpin-pemimpin orang-orang kafir itu, karena sesungguhnya
mereka itu adalah orang-orang (yang tidak dapat dipegang) janjinya, agar supaya
mereka berhenti.” Sebuah riwayat dari Ali bin Abi Thalib dalam Sunan Abu Daud
juga menguatkan pendapat ini. Ketika itu, seorang perempuan mencaci maki
Rasulullah. Seorang sahabat tidak bisa menerima perlakuan keji itu, lalu ia
pun mencekik leher pelaku hingga mati. Instruksi untuk membunuh Ka’ab bin
Al-Asyraf dalam Sunan An-Nasai, termasuk dalil utama kalangan ini. Abdullah
bin Umar pernah mendapat laporan tentang seorang pendeta yang menghujat Nabi.
Ibn Umar mengatakan, seandainya ia mendengar langsung hujatan tersebut maka ia
akan membunuhnya. Karena, perjanjian perlindungan dan perdamaian yang
disepakati bukan untuk melecehkan Rasulullah. Pendapat yang kedua menegaskan
bahwa para penghina Rasulullah dari non-Muslim tidak perlu dibunuh karena
penyekutuan atas Tuhan sudah cukup memiliki dampak hukum yang besar. Kubu ini
berpendapat, mereka hanya perlu dijebloskan ke penjara atau
diasingkan. Pandangan ini merupakan representasi dari Abu Hanifah, At-Tsauri,
dan pengikut keduanya dari para ahli fikih asal Kufah. Argumentasi mereka
ialah hadis riwayat Bukhari dari Aisyah. Riwayat itu mengisahkan, Rasulullah
tidak bersikap keras atas cacian Yahudi. Ini terjadi pada peristiwa keberadaan
racun dalam makanan. Rasulullah, seperti dinukilkan dari Anas bin Malik,
menolak membunuh perempuan Yahudi yang menghidangkan kambing beracun.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Prof Hasan memaparkan sebuah jawaban atas persoalan, yakni
apakah sanksi tersebut akan gugur secara otomatis bila pelaku menyatakan masuk
Islam? Ia menjawab, terjadi silang pendapat antar ulama. Menurut kelompok
yang pertama, hukuman tersebut batal dengan sendirinya jika si pelaku
menyatakan memeluk Islam. Ini disuarakan oleh Mazhab Hanafi dan riwayat
populer dari Mazhab Maliki, Mazhab Syafi’i, Hanbali, dan dikuatkan oleh Ibnu
Taimiyah. Lanjutan pernyataan Abdullah bin Umar di atas menambahkan, bila
penghina bersyahadat maka ia tidak dibunuh. Ini sesuai juga dengan seruan ayat
38 Surah Al-Anfal:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">“Katakanlah
kepada orang-orang yang kafir itu, ‘Jika mereka berhenti (dari kekafirannya),
niscaya Allah akan mengampuni mereka tentang dosa-dosa mereka yang sudah lalu;
dan jika mereka kembali lagi sesungguhnya akan berlaku (kepada mereka) sunah
(Allah terhadap) orang-orang dahulu’.” Sedangkan, pendapat yang kedua
mengatakan, Islamnya pelaku tidak menggugurkan sanksi. Bila Muslim menistakan
Nabinya saja dihukum mati, apalagi ini non-Muslim. Keislamannya pun tak
berpengaruh apa pun. Pandangan ini merupakan aspirasi bagian kecil Mazhab Maliki
dan Hanbali. Diskusi perihal penistaan Rasulullah dalam fikih klasik menjadi
rujukan penting bagi sejumlah lembaga fatwa negara-negara Islam di era modern.
Berbagai institusi fatwa resmi tersebut merujuk keputusan mereka ke ragam fatwa
yang terdapat di banyak literatur. Kesimpulan sama persis berkaitan dengan
penghina Rasulullah dengan ketentuan serupa diadopsi, antara lain oleh Komite
Fatwa Kerajaan Arab Saudi, Komite Syariat Dai dan Ulama Sudan, Lembaga Fatwa,
Mesir, serta Dewan Fatwa Tertinggi Irak.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<!--EndFragment-->sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-79025505196693461622012-08-12T02:36:00.000-07:002012-08-12T02:36:26.798-07:00alhamdulillahalhamdulillahsebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-40774190621462570492012-08-01T18:13:00.003-07:002012-08-01T18:13:54.995-07:00UZLAH<br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">"Tak ada yang lebih bermanfaat bagi kalbu ketimbang ‘Uzlah yang
memasuki medan kontemplasi"</span></i><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;"><br />
</span></i><i><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Tak ada sesuatu yang lebih bermanfaat atas
hati sebagaimana uzlah, sebab dengan memasuki uzlah alam pemikiran kita akan
menjadi lapang.”</span></i><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></i></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Keutamaan Uzlah</span></b></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Uzlah</span></i><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"> artinya mengasingkan diri dari dunia ramai, masuk ke
dunia kesendirian, dengan tujuan menghidupkan jiwa dan mensucikan pikiran dari
pengaruh yang merusak. Dengan <i>uzlah</i> akan memperkuat pikiran sehat,
menerangi logika dengan sinar Allah, menjauhkan diri dari pikiran maksiat dan
perbuatan dosa. Sebab kadang perbuatan maksiat memasuki rongga hidup manusia,
datangnya tiba-tiba dan tak dapat diduga-duga.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Dalam <i>uzlah</i> alam
pikiran manusia akan menjadi tenang dan luas jangkauannya, wawasan berpikirnya
pun bertambah, sedangkan jiwanya menjadi bersih dan tenteram. Dalam keadaan
tenang manusia mampu berpikir tentang ciptaan Allah, dan kebesaran Allah
sebagai Maha Pencipta alam semesta serta isinya.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Dengan <i>uzlah</i> akan terhimpun dalam rongga jiwa
kita sifat-sifat mulia, akhlaqul karimah, serta terhindar dari sifat-sifat
mazmumah dan akhlak yang bejat. Cara <i>uzlah</i> ini sekaligus akan memelihara
iman dan keyakinan kita serta akan membersihkan jiwa kita dari dosa-dosa kecil,
demikian juga akan menghindarkan si hamba dari mendekati dosa-dosa besar.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Sifat-sifat mulia, seperti kalimat-kalimat zikir,
pikiran bersih, cita-cita suci, kehendak-kehendak yang menggerakkan amal,
perasaan yang menghidupkan iman dan semangat jihad, demikian juga keinginan
untuk memberi pertolongan.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Akal pikiran yang menjadi alat berpikir manusia harus
selalu dijaga kebaikannya, karena orang yang akan berpikir sajalah yang akan
memperoleh kemajuan hidup. Berpikir dan menganalisa dengan pikiran yang sehat
akan menyelamatkan manusia dari kekacauan dan ketidakstabilan.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Akal sehat dan pikiran yang jernih akan membiarkan
manusia memilih mana yang maslahat dan mana yang mafsadah. Demikian akal
pikiran yang dipergunakan akan menjadi kemudi jalan hidup kita, serta
mengendalikan pikiran yang berlebih-lebihan, dan menempatkan pikiran pada
tempat yang tepat dan strategis.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Orang yang suka ber-<i>uzlah</i>, mampu mengatur jalan
pikirannya di waktu hening. Pikiran yang dikendalikan secara teratur akan
mendapatkan hasil pikiran yang mampu menggerakkan hidup dan mengarahkannya
kepada apa yang dikehendaki oleh syariat agama Islam, dan mengantarkan
hamba-hamba Allah kepada “mardhotillah”.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Di saat-saat tertentu adakalanya kita memerlukan
logika di samping syariat. Diwaktu seseorang sedang berpikir dikala suasana
hening ia akan memperoleh inspirasi (ilham), atau hidayah ilhami dari pikiran
yang sedang diaturnya, sehingga akan mudah memecahkan persoalan yang sedang
dihadapi. Baik itu persoalan duniawi maupun persoalan ukhrawi. Masuk kepada
persoalan yang memerlukan analisa berpikir, maka agama sebagai bagian dari
pedoman pemecahan persoalan, akan memberi kepada nilai-nilai hidup yang lebih
banyak faedahnya.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Keutamaan yang diperoleh dari sifat <i>uzlah</i> cukup
banyak dan bervariasi menuju kesuksesan yang diridhai Allah Swt. Di samping
itu, semangat <i>uzlah</i> diperlukan bagi kebangkitan alam pikiran Islami dari
masa ke masa.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Keutamaan yang dapat ditemukan dalam <i>uzlah</i>,
adalah terhindarnya seorang hamba dari perbuatan maksiat, seperti menggunjing,
berolok-olok, mengumpat, sombong, dengki, iri, dusta, namimah, ghibah, durhaka,
menghina dan bermacam-macam sifat yang buruk. <i>Uzlah</i> ibarat tempat
pencucian diri. Dengan demikian akan terpeliharalah agama, dan terhindar dari
keburukan, kemaksiatan dan fitnah.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Uzlah akan memberi kesempatan bagi si hamba
menyibukkan diri dengan kesucian hati, lidah dan perilaku, dan menghindarkan
diri dari kesibukan yang bertentangan dengan ajaran Islam. <i>Uzlah</i> adalah
salah satu jalan hijrah dari kejelekan kepada kebaikan, dari kesempitan
berpikir kepada kelapangan berpikir. Abi Ishaq Ibrahim bin Mas’ud berkata,
“Dengan terasing, akan terhimpunlah cita-cita. Dan dengan cita-cita itu akan
memperkokoh keyakinan kepada Allah, sedang rencana sangat berbeda dari
cita-cita ataupun harapan.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Dikatakan lagi, bahwa seorang hamba yang hidup menyepi
maka ia dapat mengheningkan dirinya dan menyimpulkan masalah yang dianalisanya
dalam situasi yang bersih. Nabi Isa as. berkata, “Kalau kamu duduk dengan orang
mati, maka kamu akan mati sebelumnya, dan kalau kamu duduk dengan orang yang
hidup pikirannya, kamu akan menjadi orang yang hidup dan suka berpikir.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Sesungguhnya para hamba Allah yang saleh akan banyak
meluangkan waktu bersepi-sepi sendiri (berbuat <i>uzlah</i>) untuk merenungkan
dirinya dan mengevaluasi amal ibadahnya, mencuci hati dan pikirannya dengan
perenungan yang suci, dan memberi arah kepada pikirannya dengan logika yang
sehat dan wawasan yang dalam. Disaat jiwa kita jernih akan jernih pula hati dan
pikiran kita, dan disaat hati kita lapang akan lapang juga pikiran dan akal
kita.</span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Uzlah
Qolbu</span></i></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Mengapa ‘Uzlah? Karena
melalui ‘Uzlah itulah seseorang bisa selamat dari tipudaya-tipudaya, sementara
dengan ruang kontemplasi mampu memberikan pencerahan cahaya dalam jiwa. Setiap
‘Uzlah yang tidak disertai dengan kontemplasi pemikiran, maka hanya akan
melahirkan kekosongan dan kesombongan belaka. Dalam saat yang sama, suatu
aktivitas kontemplasi juga tidak bisa dilakukan tanpa ‘Uzlah itu sendiri. <br />
<br />
Menurut Syekh Abul Qasim al-Qusyairi dalam Ar-Risalatul Qusyairiyah, ‘Uzlah
merupakan lambang bagi orang yang sedang wushul (sampai) kepada Allah.
Memisahkan diri dari keramaian manusia sangat diperlukan bagi mereka yang baru
saja menempuh jalan suf. Selanjutnya ia mengasingkan hatinya dari duniawi
karena berada dalam kesukacitaan luar biasa dalam hatinya.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br />
Banyak sekali uraian tentang ‘Uzlah dari para sufi. Tentu saja pengalaman
mistikal mereka sangat mempengaruhi terminologi yang muncul dalam menguraikan
soal ‘Uzlah tersebut. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Dalam suatu hadits yang
diriwayatkan oleh Imam Muslim, Rasulullah SAW bersabda: “Di antara cara-cara
terbaik bagi manusia dalam mencari penghidupan adalah seseorang yang
mengendarai kuda di jalan Allah, dan apabila ia mendengar suara manusia-manusia
yang panik atau ketakutan dalam berperang ia memacu kudanya mencari mati syahid
atau kemenangan di medan jihad. Atau seseorang menggembalakan biri-biri dan
kambing-kambingnya di puncak gunung atau di kedalaman lembah, namun tetap
mendirikan shalat, membayar zakat dan beriubadat kepada Tuhan hingga mencapai
keyakinan. Tidak ada urusan dengan sesama manusia kecuali didasarkan atas
kebajikan? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Hadits di atas menunjukkan
betapa, suatu keberanian mencapai keyakinan akan “banyak digoda oleh hiruk
pikuk ketakutan dan kekhawatiran. Hal yang sama ketika seseorang berada dalam
kesunyian, di gunung atau di lembah-lembah, seseorang malah memacu jiwanya
untuk lebih dekat dengan Allah SWT. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Untuk melakukan ‘Uzlah kata
al-Qusyairi, seseorang harus memantapkan ilmu agamanya dan tauhidnya, agar
dalam proses ‘Uzlah tersebut, seseorang tidak tergoda bisikan-bisikan syetan.
Biasanya para sufi mengaitkan tradisi ini dengan khalwat dan zuhud. Zuhud
sendiri merupakan buah dari ‘Uzlah. Abu Muhammad al-Jurairi ketika ditanya, apa
sebenarnya ‘Uzlah itu? Ia menjawab, “Uzlah adalah Anda masuk dalam kumpulan
orang banyak sambil menjaga batin Anda supaya tidak diharu-biru oleh mereka.
Anda menjauhkan diri dari dosa-dosa, sementara batin Anda berhubungan dengan
Allah.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">‘Uzlah di sini berarti
‘Uzlah Kalbu, agar sejumlah fenomena lahiriah, fenomena kehidupan, sama sekali
tidak mengganggu ketentraman hati seseorang, apa pun yang terjadi. ‘Uzlah
inilah, yang menciptakan seseorang tetap “sunyi dalam keramaian, dan ramai
dalam kesunyian?. Artinya, hati tetap merasa sunyi bersama Allah ketika
seseorang berada di tengah hiruk pikuk kehidupan, dan sebaliknya hatinya
senantiasa ramai dengan dzikrullah di tengah-tengah kesunyian dirinya. <br />
<br />
‘Uzlah itu memang menyendiri, mengesampingkan dari hiruk-pikuk duniawi, ketika
seseorang sedang memproses dirinya untuk sampai kepada Allah SWT. Karena itu
secara lahiriah, ‘Uzlah perlu dilakukan dengan “menyendiri tanpa diganggu oleh
keramaian. Jika hatinya telah mampu, maka baru hatinya yang ‘Uzlah, sementara
dhahirnya berada di tengah keramaian. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Menurut pensyarah Al-Hikam,
Syekh Zaruq, membagi ‘Uzlah dalam tiga kategori. Pertama, manusia yang ‘Uzlah
kalbunya, sementara fisiknya tidak. Inilah yang merupakan eksistensi yang nyata
dan perjalanan yang cemerlang. Situasi dan kondisi mistikalnya adalah kondisi
manusia-manusia Muttaqin dan telah mencapai keparipurnaan. <br />
<br />
Kedua, manusia yang menyendiri dalam fisiknya tetapi kalbunya tidak. Kondisi
ini lumayan baik, namun harus memenuhi beberapa syarat, untuk menyongsong arus
rahmat Allah dalam kondisinya. Dan ketiga, ada yang ‘Uzlah lahir dan batin.
Yaitu mereka yang disebut dengan Al-Mutakhalli atau Takhalli. Kondisi ketiga
ini nantinya akan memasuki Tahalli (berias dengan akhlak mulia), dilanjutkan
dengan Tajalli (menjadi manifestasi cahaya Ilahi). Kategori manusia yang ‘Uzlah
lahir dan batin itu, terbagi pula menjadi tiga: </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">1. Orang yang ‘Uzlah agar
dirinya bisa selamat, </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">2. Model orang yang ‘Uzlah
karena ingin meraih sesuatu, dan </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">3. Orang yang ‘Uzlah untuk
mendapatkan kenikmatan. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Yang pertama harus setelah
mengetahui kondisi hatinya, ia harus melaksanakan kewajiban-kewajiban waktu, di
samping ia harus membebaskan diri dari sikap bersu’udhan pada orang lain, siapa
pun juga. Syarat kategori kedua, harus menjaga Sunnah Nabi disertai ketekunan
beramal dan beribadah. Syarat kategori ketiga, adalah memanifestasikan kondisi
mistikal kalbunya serta menjaga dari ucapan-ucapan yang tidak berguna. Wallahu
A’lam. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Sementara itu medan
kontemplasi yang dimaksud di atas, adalah mengikuti logika perjalanan pemikiran
secara positif. Wilayah kontemplasi itu terbagi menjadi empat: <br />
<br />
1. Adanya semesta jagad raya ini, menunjukkan adanya Allah, dan Allah adalah
Maha Wujud Hakiki, sehingga muncul kesimpulan sikap menetapkan Yang Ada
Hanyalah Allah, yang lain hanya ada semu atau tidak ada. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">2. Adanya selera syahwat
yang menjadi penghalang atau rintangan mencapai tujuan utamanya, karena itu
syahwat itu tidak boleh mendapatkan peluang dalam medan kontemplasi. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">3. Adanya kealpaan yang
bisa memalingkan diri dari hamparan Ilahi, sehingga seseorang bisa waspada
dengannya, agar tidak terjebak dalam kealpaan tersebut.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">4. Adanya kehampaan dalam
aktivitas hidup, dan karena itu jangan sampai menyimpang dari pemahaman yang
benar.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Di alam modern, aktivitas
yang sangat sibuk, manusia mestinya harus menyisakan waktunya untuk melakukan
refleksi setiap hari. Refleksi itu dilakukan dalam ruang ‘Uzlah. Jika ada 24
jam sehari semalam, kita perlu menyisakan waktu, minimal satu jam saja, untuk
lepas dari segala aktivitas duniawi. Berdiam diri sembari berkontemplasi akan
tujuan utama hidup ini, dengan sejumlah pertanyaan, “Wahai diri, apa sebenarnya
yang kamu cari dalam hidup ini? Ke mana hati ini akan menuju? Benarkah apa yang
kita lakukan seharian sudah memiliki manfaat untuk dunia akhirat? Sudahkah kita
memohon ampunan kepada Allah untuk kesalahan dan dosa kita hari ini? dan
seterusnya. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Kelak jika terbiasa, walau
pun kita sudah sibuk secara fisik dan fikiran, hati kita tidak terpengaruh.
Sebab Kalbu telah melakukan ‘Uzlah maka, di mana pun ia berada dan dalam
kondisi apa pun, hatinya tidak terpengaruh. Sebab hatinya tetap istiqamah,
‘Uzlah bersama Allah SWT. Namun semua itu perlu riyadlah atau latihan ruhani.</span></div>
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Al Hikam, Athoillah Syakandari</div>sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-32524032686030261612012-08-01T17:53:00.000-07:002012-08-01T17:53:12.918-07:00Nasehat Buat Suami dan Istri<br />
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kesenangannya untuk berbicara dan bercakap-cakap (bercengkerama).</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
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isteri dan nama kesukaannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
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emosional dan tempramental.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">7.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Berilah isteri
anda rasa aman dan tenang.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">8.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Membuatnya
gembira dengan pemberian yang mengejutkan.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">9.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Masuklah ke
dalam rumah dengan wajah berseri-seri dan tersenyum.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">10.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Berlemahlembutlah
dalam berbicara.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">11.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Bicarakanlah
sesuatu yang menyenangkannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">12.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Memujinya di
hadapan keluarga anda dan keluarganya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">13.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Menghargai
penampilannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">14.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Berikanlah
hadiah (romantis) semisal bunga atau selainnya sebagai penguat cinta diantara
keduanya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">15.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Hilangkanlah
kejenuhan<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>rutinitas sehari-hari dengan
bertamasya (rihlah) atau selainnya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">16.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Terimalah
kekurangan-kekurangannya karena tidak ada manusia yang sempurna.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">17.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jagalah diri
dari perkara-perkara sepele yang dapat bertumpuk menjadi masalah besar.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">18.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Bantulah isteri
anda dalam urusan-urusan rumah tangga.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">19.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jangan kikir
dengan perasaan anda. Ekspresikan perasaan anda kepadanya dengan kelembutan dan
kejujuran.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">20.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Hargai akal dan
buah pemikirannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">21.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Selalulah
berbaik sangka kepada dirinya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">22.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Bangkitkanlah
perasaannya bahwa ia adalah wanita yang ideal bagi anda.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">23.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Bantulah ia
meningkatkan kemampuannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">24.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jagalah
perasaannya terutama di saat haidh dan hamil.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">25.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Bantulah dirinya di dalam mengurusi
anak-anak.</span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">26.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Hormati
keluarganya, berbuat baik kepada mereka dan tidak melarangnya untuk mengunjungi
keluarganya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">27.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Makan bersama
di rumah atau tempat lain yang tenang dan aman dari fitnah.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">28.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Berikan pujian
dan sanjungan kepada dirinya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">29.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jagalah
rahasianya dan janganlah menyebarkannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">30.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jagalah
hak-haknya dan janganlah menyia-nyiakannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">31.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Berbuat adillah
kepada dirinya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">32.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Perlakukanlah
dirinya dengan baik dan lemah lembut.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">33.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Bersikaplah
realistis dan jadikanlah dirinya sebagai isteri yang ideal bagi anda.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">34.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Bekerja sama
dengannya di dalam ketaatan kepada Alloh.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">35.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Janganlah anda
terlalu sering meninggalkan dirinya dan rumah.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">36.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Yang lalu
biarlah berlalu dan jangan suka mengungkit-ungkit kesalahan yang telah berlalu.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">37.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jangan
memberikan peluang kepada orang lain untuk mencampuri urusan rumah tangga anda.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">38.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jauhi motivasi
yang buruk tatkala menikah.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">39.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jagalah
kesehatannya secara intensif.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">40.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Ajaklah isteri
anda ke dalam kebahagiaan anda.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">41.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Kirimlah surat
kepadanya apabila anda jauh darinya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">42.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jelas dan tidak
tergesa-gesa apabila anda meminta sesuatu padanya sehingga dia faham dan tidak
bingung dengan apa yang anda inginkan.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">43.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Maklumilah kecemburuannya dan
maafkanlah.</span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">44.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Bantulah dirinya di dalam menghadapi
persoalan-persoalan yang menyusahkan dan membosankan.</span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">45.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Ikutilah
petunjuk Islam ketika isteri anda berpaling.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">46.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jangan
menganggap diri anda selalu benar.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">47.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Mengikuti
petunjuk Islam tatkala melakukan hubungan intim.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">48.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Tidak
mendatangi isteri dari dubur atau tatkala haidh.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">49.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Menjaganya dari
pandangan-pandangan jahat manusia.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">50.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Memberinya
anggaran khusus selain biaya hidup sehari-hari.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">51.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Nikmatilah
nikmatnya lupa terutama yang berkaitan dengan musibah-musibah yang menyedihkan,
kesalahan-kesalahan dan perilaku isteri di masa lalu.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 42.55pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">52.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Janganlah anda
menunggu-nunggu mukjizat, karena isteri anda adalah unik dengan karakternya dan
janganlah anda memaksanya berubah sekehendak anda. Terimalah dirinya apa
adanya, tutuplah mata dari kelemahan-kelemahannya dan bukalah mata dari
kelebihan-kelebihannya. Insya Alloh isteri anda akan semakin mencintai anda.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
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<div class="MsoNormal">
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<div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;">
<b><span style="color: #009900; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Nasehat
Bagi Seorang Istri</span></b></div>
<div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;">
<b><span style="color: #009900; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">(
Agar anda bahagia dengan suami anda) </span></b></div>
<div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;">
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jangan membiarkan suami anda
memandang dalam keadaan anda tidak menggembirakannya. Wanita yang paling baik
adalah wanita yang selalu membuat suaminya bahagia.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Hendaklah
senyum itu senatiasa menghiasi bibirmu setiap anda dipandang oleh sang suami.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Perbanyaklah mencari keridhan
suami dengan mentaatinya, sejauh mana ketaatan anda kepada suami, sejauh itu
pulalah dia merasakan cintamu kepadanya dan dia akan segera menuju keridhaanmu.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Pilihlah
waktu yang tepat untuk meluruskan kesalahan suami</span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jadilah anda orang yang lapang
dada, janganlah sekali-kali menyebut-nyebut kekurangan suami anda kepada orang
lain.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Perbaikilah
kesalahan suami dengan segala kemampuan dan kecintaan yang anda miliki,
janganlah berusaha melukai perasaannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">7.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Janganlah memuji-muji laki-laki
lain dihadapan suami kecuali sifat diniyah yang ada pada laki-laki tersebut.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">8.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jangan
engkau benarkan ucapan negatif dari orang lain tentang suamimu.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">9.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Upayakan untuk tampil di depan
suamimu dengan perbuatan yang disenanginya dan ucapan yang disenanginya pula.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">10.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Berilah
pengertian kepada suami anda agar dia menghormatimu dan saling menghormati
dalam semua urusan.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">11.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Anda harus selalu merasa senang
berkunjung kepada kedua orang tuanya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">12.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Janganlah
anda menampakkan kejemuan padanya, jika terjadi kekurangan materi Ingatlah
bahwa apa yang ia berikan kepadamu sudah lebih dari cukup.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">13.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Biasakanlah anda tertawa bila ia
tertawa, menangis dan bersedih jika ia bersedih. Karena bersatunya perasaan
akan melahirkan perasaan cinta kasih.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">14.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Diam
dan perhatikanlah jika ia berbicara.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">15.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Janganlah banyak mengingatkan
bahwa anda pernah meminta sesuatu kepadanya. Bahkan jangan diingatkan kecuali
jika anda tahu bahwa ia mudah untuk diingatkan.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">16.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Janganlah
anda mengulangi kesalahan yang tidak disenangi oleh suami anda dan ia tidak
suka melihatnya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">17.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jangan lupa bila anda melihat
suami anda shalat sunnah di rumah, hendaknya anda berdiri dan ikut shalat
dibelakangnya. Jika ia membaca, hendaknya anda duduk mendengarkannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">18.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jangan
berlebih-l;ebihan berbicara tentang angan-angan pribadi di depan suami, tetapi
mintalah selalu agar ia menyebutkan keinginan pribadinya di depanmu.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">19.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Janganlah mendahulukan pendapatmu
dari pendapatnya pada setiap masalah, baik yang kecil maupun yang besar.
Hendaklah cintamu kepadanya mendorong anda mendahulukan pendapatnya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">20.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Janganlah
anada mengerjakan shaum sunnah kecuali dengan izinnya, dan jangan keluar rumah
kecuali dengan sepengetahuannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">21.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jagalah rahasia yang disampaikan
kepadamu dan janganlah menyebarkannya sekalipun kepada kedua orang tuanya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">22.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Hati-hati
jangan sampai menyebut-nyebut bahwa anda lebih tinggi derajatnya dari derajat
suami. Hal itu akan mengundang kebencian kepadamu.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">23.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jika salah satu dari orang tuanya
sakit atau kerabatnya, maka anda punya kewajiban untuk menjenguk bersamanya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">24.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Sesuaikanlah
peralatan rumah tangga anda dengan barang-barang yang disenangi suami anda.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">25.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jangan sampai anda meninggalkan
rumah meskipun sedang bertengkar dengannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">26.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Katakanlah
kejemuan dan kebosananmu ketika ia sudah meninggalkan rumah.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">27.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Terimalah udzurnya ketika ia
membatalkan janjinya untuk keluar bersamamu, karena mungkin ia terpaksa
memenuhi panggilan orang yang datang kepadanya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
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</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Hindari
sifat cemburu, sesungguhnya cemburu adalah senjata penghancur.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">29.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Janganlah mengabaikan pemimpinmu
(suami) dengan alasan bahwa ia telah menjadi suamimu.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">30.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Janganlah
anda berbicara dengan sang suami, seakan-akan anda suci dan dia berdosa.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">31.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jagalah perasaannya, jangan
gembira ketika dia sedang sedih dan jangan menangis ketika dia gembira.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
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</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Perbanyaklah
menyebut-nyebut keutamaan suami di hadapannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">33.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Perlihatkan kepada suamimu bahwa
anda turut merasakan apa yang dirasakan sang suami tatkala ia tidak berhasil
mencapai maksud dan tujuannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">34.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Perbaharuilah
(tekad suami) ketika terjadi kegagalan.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
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</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Jauhilah sifat dusta karena hal
itu akan menyakitkannya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 42.55pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list 42.55pt; text-indent: -24.55pt;">
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">36.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Ingatkanlah
selalu pada suamimu bahwa anda tidak tahu (bagaimana nasib anda) seandainya
anda tidak dipersunting olehnya.</span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
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</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Ucapkanlah rasa syukur dan terima
kasih pada waktu ia memberikan sesuatu kepadamu. <br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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<span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Sumber :</span><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Bell MT"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Bell MT"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><a href="http://www.geocities.com/abu_amman/"><span lang="SV" style="color: blue; font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Kiat-kiat disayang isteri, Pustaka al-Sofwa, pent.
Akhyar ash-Shidiq Muhsin, Lc., Editor : Kholid Syamhudi, Lc. </span></a><a href="http://www.geocities.com/abu_amman/"><span style="color: blue; font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Judul
Asli : Kayfa Taj’al Zawjataka Tuhibbuka</span></a>; <span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Adil Fathi
Abdillah;</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Georgia; mso-fareast-font-family: Georgia; mso-fareast-language: IN;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span lang="SV" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ansi-language: SV; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">“Nasehat kepada para Muslimah”, bagian kedua, Fathi Majdi as-Sayyid.
Penerjemah:Muzaidi Hasbullah, Lc,dkk.Penerbit: Pustaka Arafah, Cetakan I: April
01/Muharram 1422H, hal.66-70 oleh Ibnu Tumingan [ibnu_tumingan@yahoo.com]
</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;">Fri Jul 27, 2001</span></div>
<a href="http://www.geocities.com/abu_amman/"><span style="font-family: "Bell MT","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: IN;"></span></a>sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-91130960826993041472012-07-23T18:12:00.001-07:002012-07-23T18:12:10.295-07:00Wanita Inggris Masuk Islam di Palestine Juli 2012<div class="isiberita">
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<strong></strong> Ramadan tahun ini menjadi yang pertama bagi Anne William Kennedy.
Perempuan Inggris berusia 49 tahun itu pada Sabtu, 21 Juli 2012,
menyatakan telah memeluk agama Islam dalam suatu konferensi pers di
kantor pusat Palestine Scholars Association di Gaza, Palestina. <br /><br />Identitas lama pun ia tanggalkan. Anne berganti jadi Khadijah Hassan, terinspirasi nama istri Nabi Muhammad. <br /><br />Seperti dimuat <em>Press TV</em>,
Khadijah mengaku, ia masuk Islam dengan sadar, tanpa paksaan dari
siapapun. Perkenalannya dengan Islam dijembatani seorang pemuda Yusuf
Hassan dari Khan Younis City, selatan Jalur Gaza. Ia lalu mempelajari
Islam lebih dalam dari internet dan membaca banyak buku.<br /><br />Khadijah
yang saat ini mengenakan jilbab menekankan, keputusannya masuk Islam
setelah ia mendapatkan informasi tentang Allah, dan bahwa Islam adalah
agama yang unik, damai, dan mencerahkan. <br /><br />Ia mengaku sangat bahagia menjadi muslimah, dan mulai belajar membaca Alquran.</div>
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Khadijah memiliki gelar
sarjana ilmu ekonomi dan ilmu politik. Dia juga meraih gelar master di
bidang filsafat, sebelumnya ia mengajar agama di London. <br /><br />Anne
alias Khadijah bukan satu-satunya. Pada Juni 2012 lalu, pemain sepakbola
profesional Swiss, Philippe Senderos yang bermain sebagai bek di Liga
Premier Inggris, Fulham, memeluk Islam di Iran. <br /><br /><strong>Marak di Inggris</strong><br />Untuk kasus Inggris, seperti dikabarkan situs <em>Al Jazeera</em>
awal Januari 2011 lalu, laporan Kevin Brice of Swansea University di
Inggris mengungkapkan jumlah warga Britania Raya yang masuk Islam hampir
dua kali lipat dari dekade sebelumnya, sekitar 100.000 orang di tahun
2010. Dibandingkan 60.000 orang pada 2001. <br /><br />Setengah dari para
mualaf adalah perempuan kulit putih, dan rata-rata berusia 27 tahun.
Fiyaz Mughal, pendiri dan direktur Faith Matters mengatakan, di usia itu
menunjukkan mereka telah berpikir panjang untuk memeluk Islam.
Membantah anggapan banyak orang Barat bahwa para mualaf adalah mereka
yang "muda dan gampang dimanipulasi". <br /><br />Meski Inggris relatif
ramah pada Islam, tak jarang, kritikan negatif dialamatkan pada mualaf.
Salah satunya dirasakan Lauren Booth, ipar mantan Perdana Menteri
Inggris, Tony Blair. <br /><br />Dalam surat terbukanya yang dimuat di situs <em>Guardian</em>,
Booth mempertanyakan mengapa warga Inggris merasa syok dan 'horor'
mendengar ia masuk Islam. Belum lagi para kolumnis yang berkomentar
sarkastis. <br /><br />"Jalan saya menuju Islam bermula dari sebuah
kesadaran dari adanya kesenjangan dari informasi tentang dunia Islam
yang dijejalkan dalam otak saya, dan kenyataan yang saya saksikan," kata
Booth. <br /><br />Saat berkunjung ke Iran pada September 2012, Booth
menyaksikan umat muslim berwudu, bersujud, dan melantunkan doa-doa di
masjid. Sebuah adegan yang membuat bulu kuduknya berdiri. "Apa yang saya
saksikan sangat berbeda dengan pandangan barat selama ini." (ren) Vivanews.</div>
</div>sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-51809300143746678402012-06-19T02:04:00.004-07:002012-06-19T02:04:32.854-07:00Tradisi di Desa Jleper<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Warga Jleper Lakukan Tradisi Lempar Nasi</div>
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<span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-size: 14px; font-weight: bold; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><br /> RATUSAN</span> warga Desa Jleper Kecamatan Mijen Demak menggelar tradisi unik yang mungkin satu-satunya di Kabupaten Demak. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Tradisi itu berupa acara sedekah bumi yang disertai rangkaian ritual wayangan, acara melempar nasi ’’berkat’’, doa bersama di makam Kasepuhan Cendana Sari, hingga saling mengguyur minuman dawet yang terbuat dari cendol. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Warga pun berduyun-duyun untuk bisa menyaksikan acara yang sudah berlangsung turun temurun tersebut.<br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />’’Acara ini rutin diselenggarakan setiap tahun. Kami memahami tradisi ini sebagai warisan dari leluhur yang harus dilestarikan dari generasi ke generasi,’’ tutur Kades Jleper Abdul Fakih kemarin. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Tak tanggung-tanggung agar rangkaian acara berjalan semenarik mungkin pihaknya bahkan mengundang dalang asal Kudus Ki Sarbini untuk mementaskan wayang kulit. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Wayang yang mengambil cerita turunnya wahyu dari kayangan para dewata itu menjadi pamuncak acara di malam hari. Sebelumnya di sore hari sudah digelar acara pembuka yakni acara melempar nasi ’’berkat’’, doa bersama di makam hingga saling mengguyur minuman dawet terbuat dari cendol. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />’’Acara ini sekaligus bertujuan untuk meminta agar hujan turun. Sebab, boleh dirasakan sendiri kemarau panjang terjadi dan belum tahu kapan akan turun hujan,’’ tambah kades. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Acara saling melempar nasi berlangsung penuh canda tawa. Warga yang ditugasi menjadi ’’aktor’’ dalam ritual ini dibagi dalam dua kelompok. Masing-masing berjumlah 15 orang sembari membawa nasi dalam wakul. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Nasi yang disediakan itu merupakan sumbangan dari warga yang memang ikhlas memberi untuk ritual ’’perang nasi’’. Dua kelompok warga kemudian saling berhadapan dan saling melempar nasi. Suasana berubah gelak canda ketika nasi dihamburkan mengenai wajah, tangan atau bagian tubuh para pemain. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Penyubur Tanaman<br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Ada kalanya kelompok yang sedang berseteru itu nakal melempar ke penonton dan wartawan yang meliput jalannya acara. Salah seorang reporter televisi bahkan hanya mampu tersenyum saat nasi berlepotan mengenai kacamatanya. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Kades Abdul Fakih, menambahkan, nasi tak dibuang percuma. Setelah selesai acara dikumpulkan untuk kemudian dipakai menjadi penyubur tanaman dan sawah dengan cara disebar di lahan penduduk. Acara masih dilanjutkan dengan saling guyur minuman dawet usai berdoa bersama di makam Cendana Sari. Di makam itu konon disemayamkan banyak kerabat Ratu Kalinyamat dari Jepara yang juga masih Keturunan Raja Demak Bintoro Sultan Fatah. Sasaran penyiraman dawet yakni modin Desa Jleper yang bernama Muklis. Modin desa itu pun basah kuyup. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />’’Saya ikhlas tersiram air dawet dalam tradisi ini. Mudah-mudahan acara melestarikan budaya leluhur ini bermanfaat bagi warga kami,’’ ujar Muklis kemarin. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Anggota DPRD Demak H Rozikan Anwar yang juga tokoh masyarakat setempat mendukung acara sedekah bumi menjadi agenda wisata di Demak. Acara tersebut meski sederhana namun menarik bagi umum dan memiliki nilai jual. ( Hari Santoso -14). 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</div>sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-82695474149425575632012-06-19T01:51:00.001-07:002012-06-19T01:55:48.050-07:00Desa Jleper Mijen Demak<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 13px;">Desa Jleper adalah sebuah desa yang terapit oleh kali serang dan kali wulan. Di sanalah saya dilahirkan. Disanalah saya belajar ngaji, belajar berenang, memancing, angon kebo dan belajar ngangsu banyu.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 13px;">Desa Jleper itu berjarak 3 km dari kecamatan Mijen yang berseberangan dengan desa welahan.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 13px;">Mijen berasal dari kata Miji yaitu istilah dari petugas yang hanya seorang untuk menghimpun keadaan-keadaan masyarakat setempat maupun pendatang dari luar negeri maupun luar daerah. Petugas di negara yang hanya seorang itu,diangkat pada zaman mataram hindu yang berpusat di Yogyakarta, hubungannya dengan muria dengan Raja Kalingga.<br />Jadi Mijen itu tempatnya di antara kerajaan Kalingga dan Mataram Hindu.Petugas Ijen yang diangkat dari mataram yang disebut sekarang dengan Intel,yang merupakan polisi yang pekerjaannya menyelidiki kejadian-kejadian yang melanggar negara.<br /><br />Apa sebabnya diMijen diberi petugas Intel atau Ijen, soalnya Mijen itu dekat dengan bandara besar,bandaranya sekarang yang menjadi desa Bandaran. Dari bandara itu,orang-orang dari luar negeri ada dari India,Kamboja,Tiongkok (Cina).Kebanyakan orang-orang menetap sampai sekarang disekitar Bandaran adalah orang-orang Cina.Cina datang ke Bandaran dengan membawa alat-alat kebudayaan yang ada hubungannya dengan agama yaitu agama Kon Fut Syu (Kong Hucu).<br /></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 13px;">Sampai sekarang alat-alat itu masih ada disimpan didalam kelenteng (tempat ibadah umat kong hucu) kelenteng diwelahan itu,termasuk kelenteng yang tertua di pulau jawa.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 13px;">Para Saudagar itu bersal dari berbagai negara, terutama dari China dan dari Arab atau Yaman. Itulah sebabnya sekarang ini keturunan dari para saudagar itu bercampur dengan penduduk asli. Makanya tidak heran di desa Jleper dan sekitarnya ada 3 jenis warna kulit dari penbduduknya. Ada yang putih, sebagai keturuna dari gen China , ada sawo matang, sebagai keturunan dari gen Jawa asli dan ada yang menyerupai keturunan arab.<br /><br /> Desa Mijen ada 3 pendukuhan yaitu:<br />1.Mijen kerajaan (tempat raja).<br />2.Dukuh Gedangan. Dukuh Gedangan berasal dari kata Gedang yang tumbuh karena terbawa oleh arus sungai serang.Gedangan terpecah menjadi 2:ikut Mijen,dan Welahan.Bandaran ikut kelurahan Pecuk.<br />3.Dukuh Bengkal.<br /><br />Pada zaman Demak Bintoro para pembntu pemerintahan dan penyiar agama disebut Wali.Para wali yang jumlahnya ada 10.Tiap jumatan berkumpul di masjid Agung Demak yang pada waktu itu dipegang oleh Sultan Fattah.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 13px;">Termasuk Sunan Kudus kalau jumatan berangkat dari kudus ke Demak dengan naik perahu (nambangi)tukang tambang pada waktu itu bernama mbah norman, kalau nambangi lingkupnya luas dari kudus ke demak, dari bandaran ke dempet wilayah demak yang dilewati mbah norman masih berwujud rawa-rawa. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 13px;">Suatu ketika setelah jumatan kanjeng sunan kudus belum juga sampai beberapa hari,istrinya yang bernama mlati norowito menjemput sunan kudus ke Demak dengan naik perahunya mbah Norman juga. karena mbah norman kasihan kepada istri wali maka naik turun dari perahu digendong. masih diberi uang untuk kebutuhan dalam perjalanan . mendengar cerita dari melati norowito sunan kudus malah menjadi cemburu mbah norman dibunuh mayatnya terapung- apung sampai didesa bengkal. mayat mbah norman diketahui oleh orang dari kedung waru yang sedang mencari kerbaunya dirawa rawa sebanyak satu amet (40 kerbau).orang dari kedung waru namanya Tompel dan sogle, kemudian nadar apabila nanti kerbaunya sudah ditemukan ,mayat mbah norman akan diruwat (dikubur)setelah kerbaunya ketemu mbah norman dikubur di pemakaman yang sampai sekang masih ada yaitu pemakaman dukuh bengkal. makam mbah norman terkenal dengan kyai nambangan. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 13px;">mbah norman asli dari Jleper (Dongkol lurah) harta benda mbah Norman ditanam di dalam desa bengkal dengan diberi tanda batang bambu kuning sekarang sudah dirombak karena disitu didirikan masjid. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 13px;">Orang-orang yang melewati bambu kuning (pring gading)terutama orang-orang luar begkal menjadi bingung kata orang-orang dulu namanya kesandung oyot mimang. didesa bengkal ada rawa kecil yang namanya mintorogo, menurut cerita wayang mintorogo ada tempatnya bertapa begawan mintorogo. orang-orang yang menempati tanah mintorogo/ yang mempersoalkan tanah mintorogo untuk dimiliki biasanya membawa korban.</span><br />
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Hoegeng Imam Santoso merupakan putra sulung dari pasangan Soekario Kario Hatmodjo dan Oemi Kalsoem. Beliau lahir pada 14 Oktober 1921 di Kota Pekalongan. Meskipun berasal dari keluarga Priyayi (ayahnya merupakan pegawai atau amtenaar Pemerintah Hindia Belanda), namun perilaku Hoegeng kecil sama sekali tidak menunjukkan kesombongan, bahkan ia banyak bergaul dengan anak-anak dari lingkungan biasa. Hoegeng sama sekali tidak pernah mempermasalahkan ningrat atau tidaknya seseorang dalam bergaul. Masa kecil Hoegeng diwarnai dengan kehidupan yang sederhana karena ayah Hoegeng tidak memiliki rumah dan tanah pribadi, karena itu ia seringkali berpindah-pindah rumah kontrakan.<br /><br />Hoegeng kecil juga dididik dalam keluarga yang menekankan kedisiplinan dalam segala hal. Hoegeng mengenyam pendidikan dasarnya pada usia enam tahun pada tahun 1927 di Hollandsch Inlandsche School (HIS). Tamat dari HIS pada tahun 1934, ia memasuki Meer Uitgebreid Lager Onderwijs (MULO), yaitu pendidikan menengah setingkat SMP di Pekalongan. Pada tahun 1937 setelah lulus MULO, ia melanjutkan pendidikan ke Algemeene Middlebare School (AMS) pendidikan setingkat SMA di Yogyakarta. Pada saat bersekolah di AMS, bakatnya dalam bidang bahasa sangatlah menonjol. Ia juga dikenal sebagai pribadi yang suka bicara dan bergaul dengan siapa saja tanpa sungkan-sungkan dengan tidak mempedulikan ras atau bangsa apa.<br /><br />Kemudian pada tahun 1940, saat usianya menginjak 19 tahun, ia memilih melanjutkan kuliahnya di Recht Hoge School (RHS) di Batavia. Tahun 1950, Hoegeng mengikuti Kursus Orientasi di Provost Marshal General School pada Military Police School Port Gordon, George, Amerika Serikat. Dari situ, dia menjabat Kepala DPKN Kantor Polisi Jawa Timur di Surabaya (1952). Lalu menjadi Kepala Bagian Reserse Kriminil Kantor Polisi Sumatera Utara (1956) di Medan. Tahun 1959, mengikuti pendidikan Pendidikan Brimob dan menjadi seorang Staf Direktorat II Mabes Kepolisian Negara (1960), Kepala Jawatan Imigrasi (1960), Menteri luran Negara (1965), dan menjadi Menteri Sekretaris Kabinet Inti tahun 1966. Setelah Hoegeng pindah ke markas Kepolisian Negara kariernya terus menanjak. Di situ, dia menjabat Deputi Operasi Pangak (1966), dan Deputi Men/Pangak Urusan Operasi juga masih dalam 1966. Terakhir, pada 5 Mei 1968, Hoegeng diangkat menjadi Kepala Kepolisian Negara (tahun 1969, namanya kemudian berubah menjadi Kapolri), menggantikan Soetjipto Joedodihardjo.<br /><br /><b>Biografi Hoegeng</b><br />Banyak hal terjadi selama kepemimpinan Kapolri Hoegeng Iman Santoso. Pertama, Hoegeng melakukan pembenahan beberapa bidang yang menyangkut Struktur Organisasi di tingkat Mabes Polri. Hasilnya, struktur yang baru lebih terkesan lebih dinamis dan komunikatif. Kedua, adalah soal perubahan nama pimpinan polisi dan markas besarnya. Berdasarkan Keppres No.52 Tahun 1969, sebutan Panglima Angkatan Kepolisian RI (Pangak) diubah menjadi Kepala Kepolisian RI (Kapolri). Dengan begitu, nama Markas Besar Angkatan Kepolisian pun berubah menjadi Markas Besar Kepolisian (Mabak).<br /><br />Perubahan itu membawa sejumlah konsekuensi untuk beberapa instansi yang berada di Kapolri. Misalnya, sebutan Panglima Daerah Kepolisian (Pangdak) menjadi Kepala Daerah Kepolisian RI atau Kadapol. Demikian pula sebutan Seskoak menjadi Seskopol. Di bawah kepemimpinan Hoegeng peran serta Polri dalam peta organisasi Polisi Internasional, International Criminal Police Organization (ICPO), semakin aktif. Hal itu ditandai dengan dibukanya Sekretariat National Central Bureau (NCB) Interpol di Jakarta.<br /><br />Selama ia menjabat sebagai kapolri ada dua kasus menggemparkan masyarakat. Pertama kasus Sum Kuning, yaitu pemerkosaan terhadap penjual telur, Sumarijem, yg diduga pelakunya anak-anak petinggi teras di Yogyakarta. Ironisnya, korban perkosaan malah dipenjara oleh polisi dengan tuduhan memberi keterangan palsu. Lalu merembet dianggap terlibat kegiatan ilegal PKI. Nuansa rekayasa semakin terang ketika persidangan digelar tertutup. Wartawan yg menulis kasus Sum harus berurusan dengan Dandim 096. Hoegeng bertindak. Kita tidak gentar menghadapi orangorang gede siapa pun. Kita hanya takut kepada Tuhan Yang Mahaesa. Jadi, walaupun keluarga sendiri, kalau salah tetap kita tindak. Geraklah the sooner the better, tegas Hoegeng di halaman 95.<br /><br />Kasus lainnya yg menghebohkan adalah penyelundupan mobil-mobil mewah bernilai miliaran rupiah oleh Robby Tjah jadi. Berkat jaminan, pengusaha ini hanya beberapa jam mendekam di tahanan Komdak. Sungguh berkua sanya si penjamin sampai Ke jaksaan Jakarta Raya pun memetieskan kasus ini. Siapakah si penjamin itu? Tapi, Hoegeng tak gentar. Di kasus penyelundupan mobil mewah berikutnya, Robby tak berkutik. Pejabat yg terbukti menerima sogokan ditahan. Rumor yg santer, gara-gara membongkar kasus ini pula yg menyebabkan Hoegeng di pensiunkan, 2 Oktober 1971 dari jabatan kapolri. Kasus ini ternyata melibatkan sejumlah pejabat dan perwira tinggi ABRI (hlm 118). Bayangan banyak orang,<br />memasuki masa pensiun orang pertama di kepolisian pasti menyenangkan. Tinggal menikmati rumah mewah berikut isinya, kendaraan siap pakai. Semua itu diperoleh dari sogokan para pengusaha.<br /><br /><b>Biografi Hoegeng</b><br />Kasus inilah yang kemudian santer diduga sebagai penyebab pencopotan Hoegeng oleh Soeharto. Hoegeng dipensiunkan oleh Presiden Soeharto pada usia 49 tahun, di saat ia sedang melakukan pembersihan di jajaran kepolisian. Kabar pencopotan itu diterima Hoegeng secara mendadak. Kemudian Hoegeng ditawarkan Soeharto untuk menjadi duta besar di sebuah Negara di Eropa, namun ia menolak. Alasannya karena ia seorang polisi dan bukan politisi.<br /><br />“Begitu dipensiunkan, Bapak kemudian mengabarkan pada ibunya. Dan ibunya hanya berpesan, selesaikan tugas dengan kejujuran. Karena kita masih bisa makan nasi dengan garam,” ujar Roelani. “Dan kata-kata itulah yang menguatkan saya,” tambahnya.<br /><br />Hoegeng diberhentikan dari jabatannya sebagai Kapolri pada 2 Oktober 1971, dan ia kemudian digantikan oleh Komisaris Jenderal Polisi Drs. Moh. Hasan. Pemberhentian Hoegeng dari jabatannya ini menyisakan sejumlah tanda tanya di antaranya karena masa jabatannya sebagai Kapolri saat itu belum habis. Berbagai spekulasi muncul berkaitan dengan pemberhentiannya tersebut, antara lain dikarenakan figurnya terlalu populer dikalangan pers dan masyarakat. Selain itu ada pula yang menyebutkan bahwa ia diganti karena kebijaksanaannya tentang penggunaan helm yang dinilai sangat kontroversi.<br /><br />Ternyata masa menyenangkan itu tidak berlaku bagi Hoegeng yg anti disogok. Pria yg pernah dinobatkan sebagai The Man of the Year 1970 ini pensiun tanpa memiliki rumah, kendaraan, maupun barang mewah. Rumah dinas menjadi milik Hoegeng atas pemberian dari Kepolisian. Beberapa kapolda patungan membeli mobil Kingswood, yg kemudian menjadi satu-satunya mobil yg ia miliki.Pengabdian yg penuh dari Pak Hoegeng tentu membawa konsekuensi bagi hidupnya sehari-hari. Pernah dituturkannya sekali waktu, setelah berhenti dari Kepala Polri dan pensiunnya masih diproses, suatu waktu dia tidak tahu apa yg masih dapat dimakan oleh keluarga karena di rumah sudah kehabisan beras.<br /><br />Hoegeng memang seorang yang sederhana, ia mengajarkan pada istri dan anak-anaknya arti disiplin dan kejujuran. Semua keluarga dilarang untuk menggunakan berbagai fasilitas sebagai anak seorang Kapolri.<br /><br />“Bahkan anak-anak tak berani untuk meminta sebuah sepeda pun,” kata Merry.<br /><br />Aditya, salah seorang putra Hoegeng bercerita, ketika sebuah perusahaan motor merek Lambretta mengirimkan dua buah motor, sang ayah segera meminta ajudannya untuk mengembalikan barang pemberian itu. “Padahal saya yang waktu itu masih muda sangat menginginkannya,” kenang Didit.<br /><br />Saking jujurnya, Hoegeng baru memiliki rumah saat memasuki masa pensiun. Atas kebaikan Kapolri penggantinya, rumah dinas di kawasan Menteng Jakarta pusat pun menjadi milik keluarga Hoegeng. Tentu saja, mereka mengisi rumah itu, setelah seluruh perabot inventaris kantor ia kembalikan semuanya.<br /><br />Memasuki masa pensiun Hoegeng menghabiskan waktu dengan menekuni hobinya sejak remaja, yakni bermain musik Hawaiian dan melukis. Lukisan itu lah yang kemudian menjadi sumber Hoegeng untuk membiayai keluarga. Karena harus anda ketahui, pensiunan Hoegeng hingga tahun 2001 hanya sebesar Rp.10.000 saja, itu pun hanya diterima sebesar Rp.7500! Dalam acara Kick Andy, Aditya menunjukkan sebuah SK tentang perubahan gaji ayahnya pada tahun 2001, yang menyatakan perubahan gaji pensiunan seorang Jendral Hoegeng dari Rp. 10.000 menjadi Rp.1.170.000. Pada 14 Juli 2004, Hoegeng meninggal dunia di Rumah Sakit Cipto Mangunkusumo, Jakarta dalam usia yang ke 83 tahun. Ia meninggal karena penyakit stroke dan jantung yang dideritanya. Hoegeng mengisi waktu luang dengan hobi melukisnya.<br /><br />Biografi Hoegeng<br />Itulah sekadar beberapa catatan kenangan untuk Pak Hoegeng yg baru saja meninggalkan kita. Seorang yg hidupnya senantiasa jujur, seorang yg menjadi simbol bagi hidup jujur, dan simbol bagi kejujuran yg hidup.<br /><br />Tak heran, Almarhum Gus Dur pernah berkata,<br /><br />"Di Indonesia ini hanya ada tiga polisi jujur, yakni polisi tidur, patung polisi, dan Hoegeng."</div>
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Let’s take a trip to a time long ago and extract wisdom from a wise man we all look up to and admire. Allah <em>subhanahu wa ta`ala </em>(exalted
is He) told us his story, not as a bed-time comfort, but as a means for
us to extract life-long lessons. Let’s not overlook his story; let’s
dive in and live the parts of his story that we can, admire and learn
from the parts that we can’t.</div>
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At that blessed time long ago, Allah <em>subhanahu wa ta’la</em> (exalted is He) spoke to this amazing creation, Musa `<em>alayhi sallatu wa sallam</em> (may God send His peace and blessings on him). Imagine. Allah (swt) <strong>spoke</strong> to Musa (as) Himself. <em>Allah!</em></div>
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<em></em>In this blessed conversation,
Allah (swt) shows Musa what can happen when one has Allah (swt) on his
side. He teaches him a valuable lesson about the power of Allah (swt)
above creation. He takes a simple stick and produces an unimaginable
miracle, then takes a simple hand and again produces an unimaginable
miracle (see Surah Taha, Qur’an <a href="http://quran.com/20">20</a>). He shows Musa that with Allah (swt) on his side, even when one thinks they have nothing, He can make them have everything.</div>
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After Allah (swt) shows him a glimpse of
his Lord’s unimaginable power, Allah (swt) then gives him a heavy task. A
task that many would shy away from, especially if they thought they
would be in it alone. Musa on the other hand knew that he had Allah
(swt) by His side, and that the results and effects would be from Allah
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Allah (swt) says:<br />
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“Go to Pharaoh. Indeed, he has transgressed.”</div>
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[Moses] said, “My Lord, expand for me my breast [with assurance]</div>
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And ease for me my task</div>
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And untie the knot from my tongue</div>
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That they may understand my speech.”</div>
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Musa doesn’t abandon the task that his Lord has given him, rather he
asks for His assistance, first and foremost. Then Musa does something
profound, that we often times overlook:<br />
Allah (swt) tells us that Musa says:<br />
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“And appoint for me a minister from my family—</div>
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Aaron, my brother.</div>
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Increase through him my strength</div>
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And let him share my task</div>
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That we may exalt You much</div>
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And remember You much.</div>
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Indeed, You are of us ever Seeing.”</div>
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[Allah] said, “You have been granted your request, O Moses.” (Qur’an, <a href="http://quran.com/20/24-36">20:24-36</a>)</div>
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What does Musa do? He asks for a companion and then he tells us exactly what a <em>true friend</em>
is. Often times we try to ride the waves of life alone, or we depend
too much on our friends. But just like everything else in this religion,
the middle ground is the smoothest for sailing. While asking His Lord
for a companion, Musa laid out a rubric for us to live by when choosing
our close companions.<br />
Let’s take a look at the qualities that Musa (as) has recommended for a <em>close companion</em>:<br />
“Increase, through him, my strength”<br />
The first thing that we should look for in a friend is that they
should make us stronger human beings. They should be someone that we
trust will help us when we are at our low points and that we won’t feel
self-conscious with when seeking help. But the key here to notice is
that when we are strengthened by our friends, we should keep in mind
that it is not really our <em>friend</em> that has made us strong, rather Allah (swt) has strengthened us <em>through</em> our friend.<br />
“And let him share my task”<br />
Next, Musa (as) asks that he be granted a companion so that he can
“share in his task.” Often times we try to go through life alone and we
try to do everything on our own. In another extreme, we may try to get
our friends to take our own life decisions and lay our tasks fully on
their shoulders. Through this description, we get the true essence of
what we should do. Our friends should be people that are capable and
willing to <em>share</em> in our tasks. They should be people we can
trust to bounce ideas off of and to help us along the way. We shouldn’t
try to wander through life and carry the entire burden ourselves, nor
should we lay our tasks fully on other’s shoulders—the moderate path is
the key.<br />
“That we may exalt You much and remember you much. Indeed, You are of us ever Seeing.”<br />
Musa (as) ends this rubric with the most important point—the purpose
of companionship and friendship. He asks Allah (swt) to grant Him his
brother as his companion so that they would exalt Him and remember Him.
In essence, he is asking that his companion bring Him closer to God,
encourages him to remember God, and that in this companionship they
never forget that Allah (swt) is watching them. This is the most
essential part of any friendship. The friendship should bring us closer
to God, never farther. The companionship should encourage us to do more
good for the sake of Allah (swt), never distract us from it. And
throughout these friendships, in good and bad moments, we should never
forget that Allah (swt) is always watching us and can see our every
move.<br />
May Allah bless us all with friends who surround us, who strengthen
us (by the will of God), who share in our burden, and who remind us of
God. Ameen.sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-89025771599829835582012-06-04T23:50:00.001-07:002012-06-04T23:50:15.044-07:00Shaking Hand With non Mahram<br />
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<strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">The Question:</strong></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Is it proven in the Glorious Qur’an or the Sunnah that shaking hands with women is totally prohibited within the social and family relations when there is trust and no fear of temptation?</span></div>
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<strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">The Answer:</strong></div>
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<span style="color: black;">There is no doubt that shaking hands between males and females who are not <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahrams</em> (illegal for marriage) has become an intricate issue. Reaching an Islamic verdict on this issue away from extremism and dispensation needs a psychological, intellectual, and scientific effort so that the Mufti gets rid of the pressure of all imported and inherited customs unless they are based on the textual proofs of the Qur’an or the Sunnah.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Before tackling the issue in point, I would like to exclude two points on which I know there is agreement among the Muslim jurists of the righteous predecessors.</span><span id="more-342"></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Firstly, it is prohibited to shake hands with a woman if there is fear of provoking sexual desire or enjoyment on the part of either one of them or if there is fear of temptation. This is based on the general rule that blocking the means to evil is obligatory, especially if its signs are clear. This ruling is ascertained in the light of what has been mentioned by Muslim jurists that a man touching one of his <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahrams</em> or having <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">khalwah</em> (privacy) with her moves to the prohibited, although it is originally permissible, if there is fear of <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em> (temptation) or provocation of desire.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Secondly, there is a dispensation in shaking hands with old women concerning whom there is no fear of desire. The same applies to the young girl concerning whom there is no fear of desire or temptation. The same ruling applies if the person is an old man concerning whom there is no fear of desire. This is based on what has been narrated on the authority of Abu Bakr As-Siddiq (may Allah be pleased with him) that he used to shake hands with old women. Also, it is reported that `Abdullah ibn Az-Zubair hired an old woman to nurse him when he was sick, and she used to wink at him and pick lice from his head. This is also based on what has been mentioned in the Glorious Qur’an in respect of the old barren women, as they are given dispensation with regard to their outer garments. Almighty Allah says in this regard: <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">“As for women past child bearing, who have no hope of marriage, it is no sin for them if they discard their (outer) clothing in such a way as not to show adornment. But to refrain is better for them. Allah is Hearer, Knower.”</strong> (An-Nur: 60)</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Allah explains that there is no sin on the old barren women if they decide to remove their outer garments from their faces and such, so long as they do not do it in a manner in which they would be exposing their beauty wrongly.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Here the object of discussion deals with other than these two cases. There is no surprise that shaking hands with women is<em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">haram</em> (unlawful) according to the viewpoint of those who hold that covering all of the woman’s body, including her face and the two hands, is obligatory. This is because if it becomes obligatory to cover the two hands, then it would become <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">haram</em> for the opposite sex to look at them. And, if looking at them is unlawful, then touching them would become <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">haram</em> with greater reason because touching is graver than looking, as it provokes desire more.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">But it is known that the proponents of this view are the minority, while the majority of Muslim jurists, including the Companions, the Successors and those who followed them, are of the opinion that the face and the hands are excluded from the prohibition. They based their opinion on Almighty Allah’s saying, <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">“And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent …” </strong>(An-Nur: 31) So where is the evidence on prohibiting handshaking unless there is desire?</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">In fact, I searched for a persuasive and textual proof supporting the prohibition but I did not find it. As a matter of fact, the most powerful evidence here is blocking the means to temptation, and this is no doubt acceptable when the desire is roused or there is fear of temptation because its signs exist. But when there is no fear of temptation or desire, what is the reason for prohibition?</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Some scholars based their ruling on the action of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) on the day of the Conquest of Makkah. When he wanted to take the pledge of women he said to them, “Go, for you have given your oath of allegiance.” But it is known that the Prophet’s leaving a matter does not necessarily indicate its prohibition, as he may leave it because it is <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">haram</em> (forbidden), <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">makruh</em> (reprehensible), or because it is not preferable. He may also leave it just because he is not inclined to it. An example of this last is the Prophet’s refraining from eating the meat of the lizard although it is permissible. Then, the Prophet’s refraining from shaking hands with women (other than his wives) is not evidence of the prohibition, and there should be other evidence to support the opinion of those who make shaking hands absolutely prohibited.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">However, it is not agreed upon that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) refrained from shaking hands with women to take their oath of allegiance. Umm `Atiyyah Al-Ansariyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported another narrative that indicates that the Prophet shook hands with women to take their oath of allegiance. This is unlike the narration of the Mother of the Believers `A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) who denied this and swore that it had not happened.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">It is narrated that `A’ishah, the wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), said, “When the believing women migrated to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), they would be tested in accordance with the words of Allah, <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">‘O Prophet! If believing women come unto thee, taking oath of allegiance unto thee that they will ascribe nothing as partner unto Allah, and will neither steal nor commit adultery nor kill their children, nor produce any lie that they have devised between their hands and feet, nor disobey thee in what is right, then accept their allegiance and ask Allah to forgive them. Lo! Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.’</strong> (Al-Mumtahanah: 12)” `A’ishah said, “Whoever among the believing women agreed to that passed the test, and when the women agreed to that, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said to them, ‘Go, for you have given your oath of allegiance.’ No, by Allah, the hand of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) never touched the hand of any woman, rather they would give their oath of allegiance with words only.” And `A’ishah said, “By Allah, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) only took the oath of allegiance from the women in the manner prescribed by Allah, and the hand of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) never touched the hand of any woman. When he had taken their oath of allegiance he would say, ‘I have accepted your oath of allegiance verbally.’” (Reported by Al-Bukhari)</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">In his explanation of the saying of `A’ishah, “No, by Allah, the hand of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) never touched the hand of any woman …” Al-Hafizh Ibn Hajar said: she swore to ascertain the news as if she (`A’ishah) wanted to refute the narration of Umm `Atiyyah. It is narrated on the authority of Ibn Hibban, Al-Bazzar, Al-Tabari, and Ibn Mardawih that Umm `Atiyyah said in respect of the story of taking the oath of allegiance of women, “The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) held out his hand from outside the house and we (the immigrating women) held our hands from within the house, then he said, ‘O Allah, bear witness.’” In another narration reported by Al-Bukhari, Umm `Atiyyah said, “… thereupon a lady withdrew her hand (refrained from taking the oath of allegiance)…” This narration indicates that they (the immigrating women) took their oath of allegiance by shaking hands. Al-Hafizh said: we reply to the first saying that holding out hands from behind a veil is an indication of the acceptance of the allegiance even if there was no shaking of hands. As for the second narration, withdrawing hands indicates the postponement of accepting the pledge of allegiance or that taking the pledge of allegiance happened from behind a veil. This is supported by that narration of Abu Dawud on the authority of Al-Sha`bi that when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) wanted to take the pledge of allegiance of the immigrating women he brought a garment and put it over his hands saying, “I do not shake hands with women.” Furthermore, in his book <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">Maghazi</em>, Ibn Is-haq is reported to have said that when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) wanted to take the pledge of allegiance of the immigrating women, he would dip his hands in a vessel and a woman would dip her hands with him in the same vessel.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Al-Hafizh Ibn Hajar said: it is possible that taking the pledge of allegiance happened on more than one occasion. Sometimes, it happened without touching hands by any means, as narrated by `A’ishah. Another time it happened that the women’s oath of allegiance was accepted by shaking their hands with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), as narrated by Al-Sha`bi. A third time it happened that they dipped their hands in the vessel as mentioned by Ibn Is-haq.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">The most correct view seems to be that it occurred on more than one occasion, if we realize that `A’ishah talked about taking the pledge of allegiance from the immigrating women after the Truce of Al-Hudaibiyah, while Umm `Atiyyah talked about what seems to be the oath of allegiance of the believing women in general.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">By transmitting these narrations, I mean to clarify that the evidence of those who are of the opinion that shaking hands with women is prohibited is not agreed upon, as is thought by those who do not resort to the original sources. Rather, there is some controversy concerning this evidence.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Furthermore, some contemporary Muslim scholars have based their ruling concerning the prohibition of shaking hands with women on the Hadith narrated by Al-Tabari and Al-Baihaqi on the authority of Ma`qil ibn Yassar that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “It would be better for one of you to have himself stabbed on the head with an iron needle than to touch a woman that is illegal for him.”</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">Here, the following should be noted: </strong></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">1. The scholars and Imams of Hadith have not declared the authenticity of this Hadith. Some of them say that its narrators are trustworthy, but this is not enough to prove the authenticity of the Hadith because there is a probability that there is an interruption in the chain of narrators or there was a hidden cause behind this Hadith. That is why Muslim jurists in the periods that followed the death of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) have not based their ruling on the prohibition of shaking hands with women on this Hadith.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">2. Some Hanafi and Maliki jurists stated that the prohibition is not proven unless there is a certain <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">qat`i</em> (definitive) piece of evidence such as textual proofs from the Glorious Qur’an or authentic Hadiths on which there is no suspicion regarding the chains of narrators.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">3. If we suppose that the above-mentioned Hadith is authentic, it is unclear to me that the Hadith indicates that it is prohibited for males and females who are not <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahrams</em> to shake hands. That is because the phrase “touch a woman that is illegal for him” does not refer to the mere touching without desire as happens in normal handshaking. But the Arabic word<em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">“al-mass”</em> (touching) as used in the Shar`i texts of the Qur’an and the Sunnah refers to one of two things:</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">1. Sexual intercourse, as reported by Ibn `Abbas in his commentary to Almighty Allah’s saying, ‘… or ye have touched women …’. He stated that “touching” in the Qur’an refers figuratively to sexual intercourse. This is clear in the following Qur’anic verses that read: <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">“She (Mary) said: ‘My Lord! How can I have a child when no mortal hath touched me?’”</strong> (Al `Imran: 47) and <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">“If ye divorce them before ye have touched them …”</strong> (Al-Baqarah: 237)</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">2. Actions that precede sexual intercourse such as foreplay, kissing, hugging, caressing, and the like. This is reported from our righteous predecessors in the interpretation of the word <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">“mulamasah”</em>.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Al-Hakim stated in his <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">Al-Mustadrak `Ala as-Sahihain</em>: Al-Bukhari and Muslim have narrated many Hadiths that show that the meaning of the word <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">“lams”</em> (touching) refers to actions that precede sexual intercourse. Among them are:</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">a) The Hadith narrated by Abu Hurairah that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “…The hands fornicate. Their fornication is the touch …”</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">b) The Hadith narrated by Ibn `Abbas that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “You might caress her.”</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">c) The Hadith narrated by Muslim that Ibn Mas`ud is reported to have said that a person came to Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) and told him that he had kissed a woman or touched her with his hand or did something like this. He inquired of him about its expiation. It was (on this occasion) that Allah, Glorified and Exalted be He, revealed this Qur’anic verse that reads <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">“Establish worship at the two ends of the day and in some watches of the night. Lo! good deeds annul ill deeds …”</strong> (Hud: 114)</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">d) `A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) is reported to have said, “The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) used to visit us (his wives) and it was his habit to kiss and caress us and do actions other than sexual intercourse until he reached the one whose turn was due and he stayed there.”</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">e) `Abdullah ibn Mas`ud is reported to have said in his commentary to Almighty Allah’s saying, <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">“… or ye have touched women, …”</strong> that it refers to actions that precede sexual intercourse for which ablution is obligatory.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">f) `Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) is reported to have said, “Kissing is to be considered among the touching acts, so perform ablution if you do.” (<em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">Al-Mustadrak,</em> vol. 1, p. 135)</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Hence, the opinion of Imam Malik and the substantial meaning of the legal verdict issued by Imam Ahmad in this respect are that the touching of a woman that nullifies ablution is that which is accompanied by desire. And this is the way they interpreted Almighty Allah’s saying, “… or ye have touched women, …”</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">That is why Sheikh Al-Islam Ibn Taimiyah regarded as weak the opinion of those who interpreted <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">“mulamasah”</em> or (touching) in the Qur’anic verse to mean mere touching without desire. In this regard, he says, “As for the nullification of ablution with mere touching, it does agree with the original rulings of the Shari`ah, the unanimous agreement of the Companions and the traceable traditions reported in this respect. Moreover, those who held this opinion have not based their ruling on a textual proof or an analogical deduction.”</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">So, if “touching” in Almighty Allah’s saying “… or ye have touched women, …” refers to touching with hands, kissing or the like, as said by Ibn `Umar and others, then it is known that when “touching” is mentioned in the Qur’an or the Sunnah it refers to that which is accompanied by desire. We would like to cite here the following verse that reads, <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">“… and touch them not, while ye are in retreat in the mosques …”</strong> Here, it is not prohibited for the one who retreats to the mosque for devotion and worship to touch his wife without desire, but touching that is accompanied by desire is prohibited.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Also, this includes the Qur’anic verses that read <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">“O ye who believe! If ye wed believing women and divorce them before ye have touched them, then there is no period that ye should reckon …”</strong> (Al-Ahzab: 49) <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">“It is no sin for you if ye divorce women while yet ye have not touched them …”</strong> (Al-Baqarah: 236) For if he (the husband) touches his wife without desire, then the waiting period is not required and he is not required to pay her the whole dowry, according to the agreement of all Muslim scholars.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">So, whoever assumes that Almighty Allah’s saying, “… or ye have touched women, …” includes general touching without desire has exceeded far beyond the language of the Qur’an and that of people. For if “touching” in which a man and a woman are included is mentioned, it is known that it refers to touching with desire. Similarly, if “sexual intercourse” in which a man and a woman are included is mentioned, it is well known that it refers to actual sexual intercourse and nothing else. (See the collection of <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">Fatawa Sheikh Al-Islam Ibn Taimiyah,</em> vol. 21, pp. 223-224)</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">In another context, Ibn Taimiyah stated: The Companions had debate regarding Almighty Allah’s saying, “… or ye have touched women, …”. Ibn `Abbas, supported by a group, held the opinion that touching here refers to sexual intercourse and added: Allah is modest and generous. He euphemizes with what He wills in respect of what He wills. Ibn Taimiyah added: This opinion is believed to be the most correct.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">The Arabs disagreed regarding the meaning of touching: does it refer to sexual intercourse or actions that precede it? The first group said that it refers to sexual intercourse, while the second said that it refers to actions that precede it. They sought the arbitration of Ibn `Abbas, who supported the opinion of the first group and regarded that of the second as incorrect.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">By transmitting all these sayings, I mean to show that when the word <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">“al-mass”</em> or <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">“al-lams”</em> (touching) is used to mean what a man does to a woman, it does not refer to mere touching but rather refers to either sexual intercourse or actions that precede it such as kissing, hugging, and any touching of the like that is accompanied by desire and enjoyment.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">However, if we investigate the <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">sahih</em> (sound) Hadiths that are narrated from the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), we will conclude that the mere touching of hands between a man and a woman without desire or fear of temptation is not prohibited. Rather, it was done by the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), whose actions are originally a source of legislation. Almighty Allah says: <strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">“Verily in the Messenger of Allah ye have a good example …”</strong> (Al-Ahzab: 21). It is narrated on the authority of Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said, “Any of the female slaves of Madinah could take hold of the hand of Allah’s Messenger and take him wherever she wished.” (Reported by Al-Bukhari)</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">The above mentioned Hadith is a great sign of the modesty of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Furthermore, it is reported in the two <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">Sahihs</em> that Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) said, “The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used to visit Umm Hiram bint Milhan, who would offer him meals. Umm Hiram was the wife of `Ubadah ibn As-Samit. Allah’s Messenger once visited her and she provided him with food and started looking for lice in his head. Then Allah’s Messenger slept putting his head in her lap, and afterwards woke up smiling. Umm Hiram asked, ‘What causes you to smile, O Allah’s Messenger?’ He said, ‘Some of my followers who (in a dream) were presented before me as fighters in Allah’s Cause (on board a ship) amidst this sea cause me to smile; they were as kings on thrones …’”</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Al-Hafizh Ibn Hajar has mentioned lessons that are deduced from this Hadith: The guest is permitted to nap in a house other than his own on condition that he is given permission and there is no fear of <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em>. According to this Hadith a woman is also permitted to serve the guest by offering him a meal, drink or the like. Furthermore, a woman is permitted to look for lice in his head, but this last was an object of controversy. Ibn `Abd Al-Barr said, “I think that Umm Hiram or her sister Umm Sulaim had breast-fed the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). So, each one of them had become his foster mother or his foster aunt. That was why he (the Prophet) used to sleep in her house and she used to deal with him as one of her<em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahrams.</em>” Then he (Ibn `Abd Al-Barr) mentioned what indicates that Umm Hiram was one of the Prophet’s <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahrams,</em> as she was one of his relatives from his maternal aunts, since the mother of `Abd Al-Muttalib, his grandfather, was from Banu An-Najjar.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Others said that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) was infallible and could control his sexual desires even from his wives, so what about other women who were illegal for him while he was granted infallibility from doing any wrong action or obscenity? This was one of his distinctive traits.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Al-Qadi `Iyad replied that the distinctive traits of the Prophet are not proven by personal interpretations of Hadiths. As for his infallibility, it is indisputable, but the original ruling is that it is permissible to take the Prophet’s actions as a model unless there is evidence that this action is one his distinctive traits.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Furthermore, Al-Hafizh Al-Dumyati said: It is wrong to claim that Umm Hiram was one of the maternal aunts of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) either by reason of marriage or fosterage. Those who breast-fed the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) are well known. None of them was from the Ansar except the mother of `Abd Al-Muttalib. She was Salma bint `Amr ibn Zaid ibn Lubaid ibn Khirash ibn `Amir ibn Ghunm ibn `Adyy ibn An-Najjar. While Umm Hiram is the daughter of Milhan ibn Khalid ibn Zaid ibn Judub ibn `Amir ibn Ghunm ibn `Adyy ibn An-Najjar. Umm Hiram has a common ancestor with Salma only in their grandfather `Amir ibn Ghunm. So, they are not among his <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahrams</em> because it is a metaphorical relationship. Al-Hafizh Al-Dumyati added: If this is proven, it is reported in the <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">Sahih</em> books of Hadith that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used not to enter any house in Madinah except the house of Umm Sulaim besides those of his wives. When he was asked why, he said, “I take pity on her, as her brother (Hiram ibn Milhan) was killed in my company.”</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">If this Hadith has excluded Umm Sulaim, then Umm Hiram is granted the same exclusion as her because they are sisters and resided in the same house; each one of them had her own apartment beside their brother Hiram ibn Milhan. So, the case is mutual between them, as reported by Al-Hafizh ibn Hajar.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Moreover, Umm Sulaim is the mother of Anas ibn Malik, the servant of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and it was the habit of people that the master mixed with his servant and his family and did not deal with them as outsiders.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Then, Al-Dumyati said: There is no indication in the Hadith showing that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">khulwa</em> (privacy) with Umm Hiram, as this might have happened in the presence of a son, a servant, or a husband.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Ibn Hajar replied: This is a strong likelihood, but it does not refute the original argument represented in looking for lice in the head and sleeping in her lap.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Ibn Hajar added: The best reply is that it is one of the distinctive traits of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) (See <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">Fath Al-Bari,</em> vol. 13, pp. 230-231).</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">What I conclude from the aforementioned narrations is that the mere touching is not <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">haram</em>. So, if there exists reasons for mixing as that between the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and Umm Hiram and Umm Sulaim and there is no fear of <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah,</em> then there is nothing wrong with shaking hands when there is a need for it, such as when returning from travel, the non-<em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahram</em> male relative visiting his female relative, and vice versa, especially if this meeting happens after a long period.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">Finally, I would like to ascertain two points:</strong></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Firstly, shaking hands between males and females who are not <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahrams</em> is only permissible when there is no desire or fear of <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em>. But if there is fear of <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em>, desire, or enjoyment, then handshaking is no doubt <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">haram</em> (unlawful). In contrast, if either of these two conditions (that there is no desire or fear of <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em>) is lacking between a male and any of his female<em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahrams,</em> such as his aunt or foster sister or the like, then handshaking will be <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">haram</em> (although it is originally permissible).</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">Secondly, handshaking between males and females who are not <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahrams</em> should be restricted to necessary situations such as between relatives or those whose relationships are established by marriage. It is preferable not to expand the field of permissibility in order to block the means to evil and to be far away from doubt and to take the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) as a model when there is no proof that he shook hands with a non-<em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahram</em> woman. Also, it is preferable for the pious Muslim, male or female, not to stretch out his/her hand to shake the hand of anyone of the opposite sex who is not <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">mahram</em>. But if he/she is put in a situation that someone stretches out his/her hand to shake hands with him/her, then he/she can do that.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black;">I have tried to clarify the detailed ruling of the issue here in order to inform those who are in the dark about it how to behave while sticking to the tenets of their religion. Also, when the detailed Islamic ruling is explained and people are fully aware of it, there will be no room for personal justifications that are not supported by legal backing.</span></div>sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-13606843110309979032012-05-22T15:52:00.000-07:002012-05-22T15:52:02.748-07:00Defining Islamic Spirituality<br /><hr />
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There are numerous <em>ayat </em>(verses or signs) of the Holy Quran that indicate the importance of spiritual purification. God talks of the <em>nafs</em> (self) and says: “Whoever purifies it has succeeded; and failure is the lot of whoever corrupts it,” (Qur’an <a href="http://www.quran.com/91/9-10">91:9-10</a>).
Furthermore, Prophet Ibrahim (peace be upon him) is quoted in the
Qur’an: “The Day [of Judgement] whereon neither wealth nor sons will
avail, except him who comes to Allah with a sound heart,” (<em>bi-qalbin salim</em>) (Qur’an <a href="http://www.quran.com/26/88-89">26:88-9</a>).
Moreover, God mentions the role of the Messenger Muhammad ﷺ (peace be
upon him): “A similar (favour have you already received) in that We have
sent among you a Messenger of your own, rehearsing to you Our signs,
and purifying you, and instructing you in the Book and the Wisdom (<em>al-hikma</em>), and in new knowledge that beforehand you did not know,” (Qur’an <a href="http://www.quran.com/2/151">2:151</a>). <em> </em>The following <em>hadith</em> (record) in <em>Sahih Muslim </em>is
also of critical importance in this regard: “Allah shall not look at
your bodies or your faces, but rather looks into your hearts.”<em></em><br />
<strong>Defining Islamic Spirituality</strong><br />
When turning to Islamic spirituality, we can use two Arabic words that denote the focus of the activity: firstly, <em>al-qalb</em>, or the heart; and, secondly, <em>al-nafs </em>or the self or ego. ‘Abdal-Qadir ‘Isa says in <em>Haqa’iq ‘an al-tasawwuf</em>: “Purification of the heart (<em>tanqiya al-qalb</em>) and rectification of the self (<em>tahdhib al-nafs</em>)
are from the most important of personally obligatory acts and of the
imperative Divine commands, as proven by the Book, the Sunna
(tradition), and statements of the scholars.” Suyuti says in <em>al-Ashbah wa’l-naza’ir</em>: “As for learning the science of the heart (<em>‘ilm al-qalb</em>) and its diseases, such as envy (<em>hasad</em>), conceitedness (<em>‘ujb</em>), ostentation (<em>riya’</em>) and the like, Ghazzali said its learning is personally obligatory (<em>fard ‘ayn</em>).”<br />
A popular term for describing the science of Islamic spirituality is <em>tasawwuf</em>, whose accepted English translation is <em>Sufism</em>.
Sufism, as even acknowledged by certain Sufis, has had its own
historical battles against heterodox and outright deviant attempts to
subvert it from Islamic orthodoxy. In this respect, ‘Abdal-Qadir ‘Isa
notes that Sufism is no different to the sciences of <em>hadith</em>, Qur’anic exegesis (<em>tafsir</em>)
and history, which all had “severe opponents and fierce enemies who
attempted to demolish” Islam “by defacing its signposts and
interpolating falsehoods and superstitions into its sciences.” Thus, in
order to dispel any misconception, ‘Abdal-Qadir ‘Isa makes reference to
“Islamic Sufism” (<em>al-tasawwuf al-islami</em>).<br />
Furthermore, ‘Abdal-Fattah Abu Ghudda, in his notes to Muhasibi’s <em>Risala al-mustarshidin</em>, after quoting a lengthy passage from Shatibi defending the Sufis in general, distinguishes and endorses “true Sufism” (<em>al-tasawwuf al-haqq</em>) and “true Sufis” (<em>al-Sufiyya al-haqiqiyyin</em>”); hence the mistake, in his opinion, of those who disparage <em>tasawwuf </em>or Sufis “without restriction” (<em>bi’l-itlaq</em>).Yet, after Hasanayn Makhluf praises a host of famous Sufis in his panegyric (<em>taqriz</em>) of ‘Abdal-Fattah Abu Ghudda’s commentary of <em>Risala al-mustarshidin</em>, Abu Ghudda adds a note of caution: that these major, pious figures were not infalliable (<em>ahl al-isma</em>), therefore any of their errors will be pointed out as such, with all due respect (<em>bi-adab</em>), like any other non-Prophet, “and without tearing them up” (<em>wa la tahdimuhum</em>).<br />
Yet many others have simply referred to <em>tasawwuf </em>as the
discipline of Islamic spirituality without qualification, on the obvious
proviso that the term is meant in the most orthodox terms, in the same
way that one encourages one to study theology (<em>‘aqidah</em>), Sacred Law (<em>fiqh</em>) or the other sacred sciences (<em>‘ulum al-din</em>)
without adding any qualifying adjective, because one understands the
encouragement as calling towards orthodoxy in each instance without
having to say so. Conversely, some people only use the term <em>Sufism</em> in a derogatory fashion, as can be seen in the usage of Rabi’ al-Madkhali in his booklet entitled <em>The Reality of Sufism</em>, or even Jamaal al-Din Zarabozo’s use of the term in his <em>Purification of the Soul: Concept, Process and Means</em>.
In the latter work, Zarabozo admits that “not all Sufis are the same”,
but “by definition and their own admission there must be something in
Sufism that is distinct and separate from what all other scholars
recognise to be the clear and manifest teachings of the Quran and
Sunnah.”<br />
With all that clarification, the following summations of what is Sufism are of great assistance. Ahmad Zarruq, in <em>Qawa’id al-tasawwuf</em>, mentions that <em>tasawwuf </em>has
received two thousand definitions; but his thirteenth principle in the
work summarises the science as “a knowledge seeking the betterment of
the hearts (<em>islah al-qulub</em>) and turning them solely to Allah Most High and nothing else.” Ibn Khaldun, in <em>al-Muqaddimah</em>, placed <em>tasawwuf </em>amongst the “Sacred sciences” (<em>al-‘ulum al-shar’iyya</em>), and was considered “truth” (<em>al-haqq</em>) and “guidance” (<em>al-hidaya</em>) from the earliest times of the Community. Zafar ‘Uthmani, in <em>I’la al-Sunan</em>, stated that <em>tasawwuf </em>is
“drawing nearer to Allah through knowledge and action”; hence it “gives
life to both the outward and inward”: the “outward” is adorned by “good
deeds” that are visible; and the “inner” is adorned “through the
remembrance of Allah, leaving reliance on other than Him, adorning
oneself with praiseworthy traits (<em>akhlaq</em>), and purifying oneself of the taint of base traits” (trans. F Rabbani).<br />
Perhaps there is some merit in making a distinction between <em>tasawwuf</em> and general <em>tazkiya </em>(purification),
because there is a distinctive Sufi method of thinking and training
that is reflected in the development of the Sufi Orders (<em>turuq</em>, sing. <em>tariqa</em>) in later Islamic history, which contrasts with the sort of general <em>tazkiya</em>
that retains a strict scriptural basis without any submission to the
Shaykhs of the Sufi Orders. Alternatively, we can contrast <em>tariqa</em>-based <em>tasawwuf</em> and non-<em>tariqa tasawwuf</em> which is perhaps best given another name like <em>tazkiya al-nafs</em>. There is great overlap between the latter two, which is why it is understandable that non-<em>tariqa </em>scholars would speak of their own <em>tasawwuf</em>,
because they have given the science such a general meaning when they
are really just talking about the general spirituality of <em>tazkiya</em> (such as Abu Ghudda). Moreover, as one sees above in the very general definitions of Sufism offered by <em>tariqa</em>-Sufis
like Zarruq and ‘Uthmani, one can understand why certain scholars still
considered themselves Sufis despite not being part of an Order or
delving into mysticism.<br />
A reason for dividing general <em>tasawwuf </em>from <em>tariqa-tasawwuf </em>can be seen by simply studying a well-known Sufi manual like the <em>Risala</em> of Qushayri. While Qushayri uses both the Qur’an and <em>hadith</em> as a basis for his chapter headings on spiritual topics, the chapters contain highly mystical theories of late Sufism, such as <em>fana’ </em>(annihiliation), <em>baqa’ </em>(subsistence) and <em>jam’ </em>(union),
etc. These theories are taken up as central points by late Sufis of the
Orders, although a Sufi like Ahmad Sirhindi, despite endorsing the path
that traverses such states, said that the Companions of the Prophet
(may Allah bless him and give him peace) did not experience such states.
Yet these mystical features are not a feature of general Sufi or <em>tazkiya </em>works like Muhasibi’s <em>Risala </em>and Abu Ghudda’s commentary; indeed, Abu Ghudda praises Muhasibi’s works for eschewing “philosophical Sufism” (<em>al-tasawwuf al-falsafi</em>)
and merely being the “call to rectification of knowledge and action,
vigilant observance of Allah Most High, purification of the soul from
filth, and making it advance to the pleasure of Allah (praised and
exalted be He).”<br />
In practical terms, we can therefore distinguish between “Sufis” who
speak in the language and the method of the Orders, and “Sufis” who
advance a non-<em>tariqa </em>method of spiritual advancement (such as
the early Sufis and then most prominently scholars like Nawawi, Ibn
Taymiyya and Ibn Qayyim, and latterly Abdal-Fattah Abu Ghudda and Yusuf
Qaradawi). Perhaps the latter group are best spoken of as non-Sufis, but
it doesn’t really matter, as long as one understands the difference in
methodology, even if the title remains the same or differs.<br />
In terms of the various titles for Islamic spirituality – which is
Islamic in so much as it always strives to remain true to the Scripture –
in addition to what we have previously stated, Taqi ‘Uthmani adds <em>tariqa </em>(the path), <em>suluk </em>(travel) and <em>ihsan </em>(excellence) in his <em>Spiritual Discourses</em>.<br />
In conclusion, one takes any practitioner of Islamic spirituality,
regardless of the title that they use, and judges them wholly by the
Scripture, and the good is taken, whilst the objectionable is discarded;
and perfection is only the case of the Prophets (may the peace and
blessings of God be upon them, and may He make us of the purified in
this world and the next).<br />
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As we know, Islam provides a few guidelines on dress code for both men and women. They are designed to promote modesty while still allowing a functioning and healthy society. I’ve heard and read a number of stories and have observed the attitudes of many brothers: that Islamic guidelines for women’s clothing and modesty exist largely for the purpose of protecting men from <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em> (trial, spiritual test, calamity). If a Muslim woman does not dress in a way they deem appropriate in their vicinity, some people will denigrate them for dressing or acting un-Islamically and being a <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em> for them. Some of these comments highlight an understanding that is divorced from healthy Islamic principles:</div>
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“Oh man, these girls are a <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em>!”</div>
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“If a guy looks at you more than once, you aren’t covering properly.”</div>
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“If a guy likes you, then you are a <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em> in the community.”</div>
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“If you’re causing <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em> at school, it is better for you to leave the school.”</div>
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“Cover properly, so that you aren’t a trial for the guys!”</div>
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Such comments strike at the insecurities, religious aspirations, and self-esteem of our sisters<strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;"> </strong>in a way Islam never ever meant. This environment can only result in a few endings. One, a person will decide that she wants nothing to do with a practicing version of Islam and will leave practicing circles, deciding to strike her own path. Why would anyone want to be in a judgmental environment? Second, she may buy into this version of “Islam” and develop insecurities and issues that a natural, Prophetically-guided, scholarly approach to Islam would never allow.</div>
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In Islam, hijab is not demanded of women by men. Hijab and modesty is ordered upon women by the Merciful Ever-Living, Ever-Watchful God, as a protection and a barrier. A means of interacting in society while holding the line against anyone who would seek to harass, hit on, annoy, or irritate them. It is an outward symbol of an inward spiritual reality and aspiration. It is not a political flag for the Islamic state, it is not a sign of women’s subjugation to men, it is not a litmus test for religiosity, and it is not a measure of a woman’s piety, family background, or sign of her upbringing.</div>
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It is one act, a result of one of God’s commands. Everyone tries to obey Him, all of us fall short. As one of the `<em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">ulama</em> (scholars) in Chicago once taught: “A person’s public sin is no worse than your private sin.”</div>
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The attitude that hijab and Islamic dress codes exist to protect men are an utter and total fallacy. How do we know that? Let us approach the Book of Allah <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">subhanahu wa ta`ala </em>(exalted is He):</div>
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“O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to bring down over themselves [part] of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known and not be abused. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful.” (Qur’an <a href="http://www.quran.com/33/59" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #154a7f; font-weight: 700; text-decoration: none;">33:59</a>)</div>
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This verse comes with the cause or <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">‘illa</em> behind the commandment: “so that they may be known and not abused.” Notice that the verse does not come with any mention of men. This is about the protection of women’s physical safety and presence from men, not the protection of men’s spiritual state from women. The fact that this protection may occur is a benefit of the Hijab for the community, not its purpose. From this, we can take four points that are critical to a healthy Islamic understanding of hijab.</div>
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For brothers, we should lower our gazes and move on. We don’t need to comment about how this is such a <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fitnah</em> or loudly say, “<em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">Astaghfirullah </em>(I seek refuge in God),” so our boys can hear us and see how “pious” we are.</div>
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For sisters, if you want to advise someone about hijab, ask yourself, am I advising because it makes me feel pious? Or am I advising because I care about this person and want to be a good friend and sister in calling her towards the pleasure of Allah (swt)? Most of the sisters who decide to wear the hijab in adulthood don’t do it because someone yelled at them or taunted them. They do it because they were able to recognize its beauty after spending time with people who wore it with dignity and showed modesty not just in their clothing, but also in their character.</div>
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There are so many gender-relations talks and seminars in Muslim communities that it almost baffles the outsider. How can a group of people who claim to have the guidance and the path to Paradise laid out for them by the Best of Mankind ﷺ (peace be upon him), have trouble understanding the basics of how to interact with one another professionally and with respect?</div>
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The issue of struggling with the base desires, as mentioned in Imam al-Ghazali’s book, “Breaking the Two Desires,” is one that is closely tied to one’s relationship with God. The soul is something that was created by God, and in order to get it to grow and defeat the base desires of the body, it must be fed. As Shah Walilullah wrote, something that is created out of the spiritual world, cannot be fed with the material of the physical world. If we want to curtail the desires of our body (for sex, comfort, food), and increase the spiritual discipline and awareness of God in our own souls, the key is developing a relationship and connection to the Book of God, the houses of God, the people of God, and the remembrance of God. Complaining about how some women in our environment do not dress appropriately and so we are having spiritual struggles is a cop out.</div>
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As many of our spiritual masters have said over the centuries, the first step in gaining nearness to God, is to understand that one must blame his or her own soul, and acknowledge his or her own deficiencies, before seeking the One who is Free From Deficiencies. This is put into action through <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">tawbah</em> – turning towards God in repentance.</div>
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We should make no mistake. The legal opinion of normative Islam, from the time of the Prophet ﷺ till today, is undivided in the view that women should cover their hair and dress modestly in the presence of non-familial men. The scholars are also undivided in the fact that you and I should not yell at our parents, swear at the weather, treat people harshly, drink alcohol, miss prayers, speak meanly to others, backbite, or judge other human beings without knowing their situations.</div>
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Muslim men should focus on their spirituality through good company, prayer, and all the other practices we are ordered to do, while allowing this to remain an issue’s of women’s <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">fiqh</em> (law), and not of men’s spirituality.</div>
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Because of the judgmental comments and harshness, and sometimes, sly, torpedo-in-the-water comments directed towards our sisters, many imams, <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">da`ees </em>(people who call others to Islam), teachers, and well-meaning advisors have trouble approaching the topic of hijab. Anyone even discussing it is often painted with the paintbrush that he is “judgmental.” This occurs even when the <em style="font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">da`ee</em> or teacher is doing so in the best of manners and with sound knowledge. This fault is on all involved of course – those of us responsible for spreading an environment of harshness, and those responsible for judging all religiously-oriented figures as being harsh and difficult to deal with.</div>
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The bad manners of some of us in “enjoining good” have made it impossible for our teachers and people of knowledge to enjoin it correctly, as people paint all of those who open their mouth on this and other issues with the same brush. This allows those who actually try to claim that the hijab is not a part of Islam to have their ignorance heard, while keeping the knowledgeable scholars from having their knowledge spread.<strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;"> </strong></div>
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No one should take this to mean that hijab is not an important part of a Muslim’s woman’s obligations towards God. But that is the key. Towards God. Hijab should not become inflated as a symbol that boosts the religious standing of a woman’s family, nor a flag of political Islam, nor a tool to show off her piety, nor a cloth of guilt that makes her hate it.</div>
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It is instead, a command from God that comes in the most beautiful manner, for her own protection, her own elevation, and her own dignity.</div>
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<strong style="font-style: normal; font-weight: bold;">Conclusion</strong></div>
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As a closing note, we should remember that if we are doing something that is good, and are enabled to do it – we should not cast off that good deed just because we may have suddenly realized that our original intention was not solely for the sake of Allah (swt). Even if we are wearing the hijab, praying regularly, speaking well, giving charity, or doing any other good deed and originally began it with an intention that wasn’t healthy or focused on Allah (swt), we should not let Shaytaan (the Devil) trick us into ceasing the good deed. Instead, we can turn towards our Lord, ask him to purify our intention, and dedicate our deed towards Him.</div>
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This is a religion that is about community. As our Lord states in Surat al Hujurat (The Chapter of the Rooms, Qur’an <a href="http://quran.com/49" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #154a7f; font-weight: 700; text-decoration: none;">49</a>), we are nothing but brothers and sisters to each other. We should advise each other towards good, but do it with a sound understanding of the legal basis of what we are calling to, as well as a sound understanding of the manners that befit our message. (http://www.suhaibwebb.com/)</div>sebagai manusia biasahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08297231208271991548noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8893459696626221574.post-82217645961268129142012-05-22T05:43:00.000-07:002012-05-22T06:17:06.045-07:00Kota Istambul<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><img alt="Istanbul, Kota Impian Para Raja (2)" src="http://static.republika.co.id/uploads/images/detailnews/masjid-sultan-ahmet-atau-masjid-biru-di-_120522184824-865.jpg" style="cursor: move; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /></span><i><span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">“Kota
Konstantinopel akan jatuh ke tangan Islam. Pemimpin yang menaklukkannya adalah
sebaik-baik pemimpin dan pasukan yang berada di bawah komandonya adalah
sebaik-baik pasukan.”</span></i><span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">
(HR Ahmad bin Hanbal Al-Musnad) Prediksi Rasulullah SAW mengenai kejatuhan
Konstantinopel itu akhirnya benar-benar terbukti. Kamis, 26 Rabiul Awal 857 H/6
April 1453 M, pasukan tentara Muslim di bawah komando Sultan Muhammad II tiba
di ibukota negara adikuasa bernama Bizantium. Sultan pun berkirim surat
kepada penguasa Bizantium yang berisi ajakan untuk masuk Islam atau menyerahkan
Konstantinopel secara damai. Perang menjadi pilihan terakhir.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Namun,
penguasa kota itu, Constantine Paleologus, menolak seruan dakwah dan
berkukuh tak mau menyerahkan Konstantinopel ke tangan Umat Islam. Paleologus
lebih memilih jalan perang. Pasukan tentara Bizantium dibantu Kardinal Isidor,
Pangeran Orkhan dan Giovanni Giustiniani dari Genoa, siap menghadapi
meriam-meriam tercanggih dan 130 ribu tentara Muslim. Lantaran tawarannya
ditolak, Sultan ketujuh dari Kerajaan Usmani itu pun mulai mengobarkan semangat
jihad. Gema takbir terus membahana seiringderasnya serangan yang dilancarkan
pasukan Sultan Mehmed begitu orang Barat menyebutnya ke benteng Bizantium yang
kokoh.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt;">Pertempuran hebat pun
meletus. Kerajaan Ottoman dengan strategi, teknologi perang, serta kepemimpinan
militer yang tangguh, dan 130 ribu pasukan akhirnya berhasil membungkam
kepongahan Bizantium. Setelah 53 hari berjibaku angkat senjata, dengan
semangat jihad pasukan Sultan Muhammad akhirnya berhasil menguasai
Konstantinopel. Harapan dan impian umat Islam untuk menundukkan Bizantium yang
telah dirintis sejak tahun 664 M akhirnya tercapai. Kemenangan yang tertunda
selama 800 tahun itu akhirnya tiba juga. Sejak saat itu, bendera Kerajaan
Usmani berkibar di langit Konstantinopel, kota impian para raja, kaisar
dan sultan. Konstantinopel pun memasuki era baru. Kota itu lalu berganti nama
menjadi Istanbul yang berarti ‘kota Islam’, sekaligus menjadi ibukota Kerajaan
Ottoman. (Republika, 22 Mei 2012).</span><br />
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Sebuah momentum penting dalam sejarah dunia. Kali pertama menduduki kota penting itu, Kerajaan Usmani mulai menegakkan hukum di kota itu. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Tak ada pembantaian terhadap penduduk Konstantinopel. Bahkan, pemerintahan Islam Usmani bekerja sama dengan umat Kristen untuk kembali membangun perekonomian, menjalin persahabatan dengan Yunani. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Dinasti Usmani juga terus mengepakkan sayap kekuasaannya ke wilayah Mesir, Arabia, dan Syria (Suriah). Yang tak kalah pentingnya, kerajaan Usmani menyebarkan ajaran Islam hingga ke kawasan Balkan.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Seiring dengan menancapnya dominasi Islam, wajah bekas kota Konstantinopel itu pun berganti rupa. Bangunan masjid bermunculan, namun tetap dengan corak arsitektur Bizantum yang khas.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Tak heran, jika pengaruh Bizantium ikut mewarnai gaya arsitektur Islam di Turki. Kemegahan bangunan Gereja Aya Sofia banyak mewarnai arsitektur masjid di Istanbul. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Di bawah kekuasaan Daulah Usmani, Istanbul terus berbenah. Pembangunan pun terus berlanjut, sepeninggal Sultan Muhammad (Mehmed) II.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Pada era kepemimpinan Sultan Sulaiman I (1520-1566), pada tahun 1550 di Istanbul berdiri Masjid Sulaiman. Bangunan masjid itu berdiri kokoh dengan empat menara dan kubahnya lebih tinggi dari Aya Sofia.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Guna menambah jumlah penduduk Muslim di Istanbul, umat Islam yang tinggal di Anatolia dan Rumeli dianjurkan untuk bermigrasi ke Istanbul. Akhir 1457, migrasi besar-besaran terjadi dari Edirne, bekas ibukota Kerajaan Usmani, ke Istanbul.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Pada 1459, kota terbesar di Eropa itu dibagi menjadi empat wilayah administratif. Sebagai sebuah kota besar pada zamannya, di Istanbul pun berdiri berbagai sarana dan prasarana publik. Tak kurang ada 81 masjid besar serta 52 masjid berukuran sedang di kota itu. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Untuk mendidik para generasi muda, tersedia 55 madrasah, tujuh asrama besar untuk mempelajari Alquran. Fasilitas sosial pun bermunculan, tak kurang lima takiyah atau tempat memberi makan fakir miskin berdiri.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Tiga rumah sakit disediakan untuk mengobati penduduk kota.Tujuh buah jembatan juga dibangun untuk memperlancar arus transportasi. Guna menunjukkan kejayaannya, Kerajaan Usmani membangun 33 istana dan 18 unit pesanggrahan. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial;">Selain itu, 33 tempat pemandian umum juga telah disediakan di berbagai penjuru kota. Untuk menyimpan benda-benda bersejarah, pemerintah Usmani pun menyediakan lima museum. ( Republika , 22 Mei 2012 )</span></div>
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Pada 14 Juli 1509, Istanbul sempat diguncang gempa bumi dahsyat atau yang dikenal sebagai ‘kiamat kecil’.</div>
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Ribuan bangunan yang awalnya berdiri kokoh akhirnya luluh lantak. Mulai 1510 M, Sultan Bayezid bahu membahu membangun kembali Kota Istanbul selama 80 tahun. Hingga akhirnya, kota itu kembali tampil megah dan gagah.</div>
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Pada tahun 1727 M, pada masa Ibrahim Muteferika seorang ilmuwan terkemuka di Istanbul, dibuka percetakan. Seiring dengan lahirnya fatwa dari Syekh Al-Islam kerajaan, buku-buku selain Alquran, hadits, fikih, ilmu kalam dan tafsir juga mulai diperbolehkan untuk dicetak. </div>
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Sejak itulah, buku-buku tentang kedokteran, astronomi, ilmu pasti, sejarah, dan lainnya dicetak. Apalagi mulai 1727 sudah mulai berdiri badan penerjemah.</div>
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Sayangnya, ketika imperium Usmani memegang kendali kekuasaan, jejak peradaban yang ditinggalkan pada abad ke-8 M sampai ke-13 M tak dilanjutkan.</div>
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Daulah Usmani lebih berkonsentrasi membangun pertahanan dan armada perang untuk memperluas wilayah kekuasaan, ketimbang membangun universitas dan pusat-pusat riset ilmu pengetahuan.</div>
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Seiring kemunduran yang dialami Kerajaan Usmani, Turki akhirnya berubah haluan menjadi negara sekuler pada 1923. Di bawah kepemimpinan Kemal Attaturk, sekularisme menjadi ideologi negara.</div>
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Semua simbol Islam dilarang, penggunaan bahasa dan aksara Arab diganti huruf Latin. Dakwah diawasi. Bahkan pada 1925, Attaturk melarang tarekat dan pergi haji. Pendidikan agama amat dibatasi. Pengadilan agama ditutup, hukum pernikahan Islam diganti dengan hukum positif Swedia.</div>
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Kini angin segar kembali berhembus di Istanbul. Muslimah kini diperbolehkan lagi mengenakan jilbab.</div>
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt;">Pada tahun 2010, saya berkesempatan mengunjungi kota Istambul, ketika ada penugasan ikut seminar tentang OIC. Saya sempat masjid Biru, gereja yang diubah jadi masjid serta pasar yang pernah dibangun lebih dari 1000 tahun yang lalu.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt;">Saya juga beli sepatu dan sempat memakai sorban imam masjid Biru. Saya merasakan teduh di masjid ketika sholat subuh. Benar, saya turis, tetapi menimati bangunan masjid justru kala setelah solat subuh dengan khusuk di sana.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt;">Menurut sebagian riwayat, pada tahun 1923, ulama di surabaya dan pesisir jawa tengah gelisah, karena kekhalifahan islamiyah sebagai wujud dari tunggalnya kekuasaan daulah islmaiah hilang, karena Kemal Attaturk menyatakan, Turki adalah untuk Turki. Turki tidak bertanggung jawab kepada wilayah islam dan tidak lagi menggunakan islam sebagai ideologi negara. Utusan dari Surabaya tersebut datang ke Mekkah dan ingin mendapat kabar, apa betul kekhalifahan sudah dibubarkan. Setelah mendapat kabar dengan cukup dan sahih, maka utusan itu kembali ke Surabaya. Mereka berdiskusi dan memikirkan nasib ummat islam di dunia, khususnya di Indonesia. </span><br />
<span style="color: #262626; font-family: Arial; font-size: 12pt;">Mereka berpikir, siapa pemimpin mereka sekarang? Siapa yang menajdi khaliafh mereka sekarang? Apakah mereka mau mendirikan kekhalifahan? padahal Belanda masih bercokol kuat di Indonesia? Akhirnya mereka ber ijtihad. Mereka menyadari bahwa, kebangiktan ummat harus disiapkan. Kebangkitan islam harus disiapkan dengan matang. Mereka sadar, bahwa itu perlu waktu 10, 20, 100 bahkan mungkin 1000 tahun. Tetapi hitungan itu tak menjadi masalah. Kematian pun bukan sebagai halangan. Ganti generasi juga hal yang tidak merisaukan. Bahkan, bentuknya kayak apa di kelak kemudian hari juga tidak menjadi kerisauan mereka.</span><br />
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<tr><td align="left">29. Katakanlah: "Tuhanku
menyuruh menjalankan keadilan". </td><td align="left">Dan (katakanlah): "Luruskanlah mukamu [533] di setiap sembahyang dan sembahlah Allah dengan
mengikhlaskan keta'atanmu kepada-Nya. Sebagaimana Dia telah menciptakan
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menyuruh menjalankan keadilan". Dan (katakanlah): "Luruskanlah mukamu [533] di setiap sembahyang dan sembahlah Allah dengan
mengikhlaskan keta'atanmu kepada-Nya. Sebagaimana Dia telah menciptakan
kamu pada permulaan (demikian pulalah kamu akan kembali kepadaNya)".<br />
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agi
manusia ada malaikat-malaikat yang selalu mengikutinya bergiliran, di
muka dan di belakangnya, mereka menjaganya atas perintah Allah <span style="background-color: green; color: yellow; font-family: arial; font-size: 10px; font-weight: bold;"> 767 </span>. </span><span style="font-family: Georgia; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;">Sesungguhnya Allah tidak merobah keadaan sesuatu kaum sehingga mereka merobah keadaan <span style="background-color: green; color: yellow; font-family: arial; font-size: 10px; font-weight: bold;"> 768 </span>
yang ada pada diri mereka sendiri. </span><span style="font-family: Georgia; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;">Dan apabila Allah menghendaki
keburukan terhadap sesuatu kaum, maka tak ada yang dapat menolaknya; dan
sekali-kali tak ada pelindung bagi mereka selain Dia.</span><span style="font-family: Georgia; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;"> Bagi tiap-tiap manusia ada beberapa malaikat yang tetap menjaganya
secara bergiliran dan ada pula beberapa malaikat yang mencatat
amalan-amalannya. Dan yang dikehendaki dalam ayat ini ialah malaikat
yang menjaga secara bergiliran itu, disebut malaikat Hafazhah. <span style="background-color: green; color: yellow; font-family: arial; font-size: 10px; font-weight: bold;"> 768 </span>. Tuhan tidak akan merobah keadaan mereka, selama mereka tidak merobah sebab-sebab kemunduran mereka</span></td><td align="left" valign="top" width="60%"><span style="font-family: Georgia; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20px;"></span><br />
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